I have been in a relation with my wife since last four years. we are continuously fighting with each other on many issues like late sitting in office, going around with friends, distrust, my family etc. After spending four years i came to conclusion that she will not change herself and i am not in a stage to tolerate her more.
We have our own flat on the name of mine and my father. Now after spending 3.5 years with her in a joined family with daily issues we have decided to move from that house for a better life. but she did not want to leave that house so easily and hence i lie to her that we will come back after six months and at that time no one else is there. i was thinking she might be changed but after six months she again started to argue on all those topics. because of our regular fights we lost baby during her pregnancy and now she is blaming me for that. she is telling everyone that i beat her, i abused her and that's why we lost our baby. she is now demanding for that house and continuously fighting with me to get back in to that house. she want me to fulfill that promise and to ask my parents and my younger brother to move away from that house.
I told her that i can ask my brother and his family to shift somewhere else but not my mom and dad. but she is not agree to that.
these regular debates was so continuous that i was not able to concentrate on my office work also. she continuously make a call on mobile and started discussing all these issues. also if switched off my mobile then she started to call on my desk number. i found difficult to survive in my current job.
so finally i decide to go away from her. luckily i got one overseas job. i told her about this and also told her that i will take her along with me after 2-3 months. but she is saying the same thing again and again that she will not let my family to stay in that house.
my father has already cleared my outstanding home loan amount and also ready to help financially if i am planning to buy a new home. but my wife is not ready to shift in any other home other than that house.
so if i went abroad and break contact with her and after going there if i refused to take her along with me then what worst will happen? can i file divorce case from abroad?