Four years competed for my marriage. For the first three years we were living together in a joint family. But due to misunderstandings and daily disputes I started to live separately with my wife in a rented flat. Previous flat is on the name of my father and me. As he also contributed 50% of cost of the flat he is co-applicant in this process. When things were not going right in between my family members and my wife, I decided to stay separately instead of telling them to search for another house. Till today I am regularly paying the EMI for previous house. My father is staying there with my mother, my brother and his wife.
One mistake I had made that before coming out from that house I promised to my wife that after 4-5 months we will come back to this house and there will be no one over there to live with us. Whatever may be the case after 4-5 months we will be in that home and no other person will be there? That was what she wants from me at that time. This is her wish and at that time I was not having any option other than accept it. I thought during these 4-5 months things will get normal. But I was wrong. Now she is demanding for that house and she wants other to look for their arrangement at other place or she want me to take same size of flat in that city only. At this time neither my budget is so strong to think for new 2bhk flat right now nor having courage to tell my parents to look for an alternate arrangement.
On this issue my wife is continuously debating with me. She used to call me in my office on my cell phone as well as my desk phone. After going home also she started to discuss on this topic only. She is not ready to listen anything. Her parents also don’t want to come in to picture. They want us to solve this problem.
Kindly advice me on this. If I sell that flat then what amount I can get and what amount I should give to my father?