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498A, 3/4 Dowry Act.

(24 posts)
  • Started 5 years ago by Abhishek_1980
  • Latest reply from Dr.Dsouza
  1. Abhishek_1980
    Member

    Medeation is going on and she is telling false story in medeation room blamed a lot to my family members. i just asked to her that if you have so many problems with my family then why do you want to join me? she said for child only...
    now 2nd medeation date in nearby, I was telling i dont want to live with her. please let me know other area's to prepare?

    Posted 4 years ago #
  2. Dr.Dsouza
    Member

    Never say, you do not want to take her back. and not at all in mediation room, as they are totally biased towards you.
    just tell once all cases are over, if she is right i will take her back that should be your word.

    Posted 4 years ago #
  3. Abhishek_1980
    Member

    But ther are asking me that forget about the case let us know you wanted to take her back or not?

    Posted 4 years ago #
  4. Dr.Dsouza
    Member

    Tell them;
    i will decide only after case finish, as long as case is pending i cannt tell anything. as there is judgment, filing false case is valid reason for divorce, what if i win the case ?

    be bold and talk loudly and clear, if possible record what they and you say secretly.

    Posted 4 years ago #
  5. Abhishek_1980
    Member

    If possible could you please provide your contact number to discuss further?

    Posted 4 years ago #
  6. Dr.Dsouza
    Member

    You can call any of our Helpline numbers near to you or join them in weekly meetings, check numbers in contact us page on http://mynation.net

    I am not in India, right now.

    Posted 4 years ago #
  7. Abhishek_1980
    Member

    4 dates of medeation has gone and medeator has forced me to take her back as now my wife wanted to come back with my terms and condition..but i refused to take her back i told to medeator that as she filled false case i dont want to take her back...now final date is on 16th April. he will confirm over the phone that i wanted to compromise the case or not?? what should i do?

    Posted 4 years ago #
  8. Dr.Dsouza
    Member

    dont say Bluntly that you do not want to taker her back.
    as i told earlier. you have to say.
    "sure sure, i will take her back once all cases are over" even for compromise, same dialogue.
    you have to say politly.

    NO

    Posted 4 years ago #
  9. Abhishek_1980
    Member

    I asked to the medeator that if she will give in written that "this is false case and she will not do it again" then i will take her back. and medeator says that she is ready to give in written but she wanted the assurance that i'll not do and counter case. i replied i'll think..pls let me know what should i do next?

    Posted 4 years ago #
  10. Dr.Dsouza
    Member

    if you want her back then take it in writting; and also ask her to write she wrote this without any Force or threat and sign infront of police and get it acknowledged by them.
    else tomorrow she may say she was forced to write like that.

    Posted 4 years ago #
  11. Abhishek_1980
    Member

    At last I got AB bail from high court, high court judge grant her interim maintenance of 6K per month for my child and her, she has already filled maintenance case and DV, now in DV mediation is going on in lower court, judge is asking to take her back otherwise he will pass 25K maintenance per month? The few question is in my mind.. please help
    1) Sometimes I am thinking to take her back for my child (4 years) as she wanted to come back. is it good idea?
    2) How can I fight the DV case if judge will pass 25K per month, is it mandatory to pay that much amount to her?
    3) I have spent a lot to fight this case and my sister husband got jail for 7 days can I ask court for my damages?
    4) My lawyers are suggesting that filled Divorce case if you do not want to take her back, is this god idea to file Divorce case now?
    Amy other suggestions are most welcome..
    please help
    Abhishek....

    Posted 2 years ago #
  12. Dr.Dsouza
    Member

    We are not Women Organisation, We men always Advice you to give someone Second chance, even there is 1% goodness in that person. if you think she will not harass you and do same or more trouble again, you can give a try.
    but be careful, take all precautions as told in earlier posts.
    Judge cannt pass any order of 25K maintenance, there should be justification, calculation and her eligibility to claim that much.
    if you prove its a false case or case quashed then sister husband has right to sue her for defamation
    to file what proof you have, wait for DV, Maintenance to finish then its easy, you will get many grounds to file Divorce.

    Posted 2 years ago #

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