I was into business for the last 13 years and last year due to so0e heavy financial problems I decided to wind-up my business & decided to look for a job. Now, after living with me for 5 1/2 years, my wife has decided to quit the marriage and till date she has not spoken to me or any of my relatives what is the exact reason. Hearing this all on a sudden my health suffered and I was admitted to hospital. Outside the hospital her mother informed my uncle that since I'm in debt and health also in poor condition, is better her daughter quit this marriage. And my parents & other relatives told them we all will sit together & discuss this matter, but her father told he's not interested in any discussion & only she & her mother turned up that day at her uncle's place. There also without giving any reason she told she cannot continue this relation anymore. Then it was agreed that till April 2012 midst she wants to wait. This happened in December 2011 first week. Then during New year her uncle infor0ed me that my wife's family has cancelled my name from their ration card and handed over the slip to him. I went over there and collected it.
At this point I'm really confused what step should I take now? We have visited so many places in India when I had money and when I faced problem with my business and when she felt that she can easily live with her salary, how can she simply break the marriage and go??? If the same is done by a man, how the man & his family will be punished under the law???
According to her mother, the woman if she's going for work, the money is not spent for the family, but that has to be saved for her future, because the husband may leave the wife at any time...
Now all are telling that agree for their demand and give them a mutual divorce... So, where's my effort & time which I've put to build this life???
Can anybody suggest how can I proceed in this case?
Eagerly waiting for a reply,
Unnikrishnan B Menon