I got married in 2.5 years back and It was an arranged marriage. Since the beginning my wife never wanted to live in a joint family and with my parents and I can’t leave my parents.
After her first bidai she came back after 14 months after lots of persuasion. Everything was looking normal in the start but then she started pressurizing me to take her out daily and outside dinner etc...she also all of sudden started creating harrassing my mother (who is totally illiterate and can’t even make a phone call) during my office time. My mother has a long history of high blood pressure, diabetes and asthma; she has to take the medicines for all the types daily. She used to spill hot milk on her, throwing chimta etc. but I kept on ignoring, thought she has little temper issues. But then she started burning incense sticks inside knowing the fact this would create breathing problem for my mother. When I asked her why, she started shouting madly and we had an argument...for a week when everything was looking normal then one week later her mother (my in-law) brought police and some rowdies and took me to the police station. Then she took her daughter with her with all of her jewelries and belongings with her and we still don’t know any genuine reasons...now we have heard that they are thereatning for 498A if I don't leave family and parents....please suggest what should I do, as I don't a relation without trust.