i am from chennai. i am a central govt employee and i got engaged on 5th june,2011. Because of lot of misunderstanding and fight during the engagement night, we called off the engagement. we have given around 1 lakh rs gold to the girl and we have not got gift from them. we have also not demanded any dowry. But the girl family is forcing us to do the marriage. Since we are not bending down, they are threatening us with a fake dowry case and asking for a 20 lakh settlement. My marriage is supposed to be after 2 months. We have spend around 1 lakh for marriage preparation also. what to do now? i dont want to get married to that girl. we have complained to police station and inspector called them and they are not turning up.