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Sexual Slavery Of Men

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  1. rohand
    Member

    Humanity consists of Men & Women. But I am surprised to know as to why most of the difficult and dangerous work is assigned to men.
    When humans were developed in ancient land, search for food through hunting was a dangerous activity. Even in contemporary tribal societies, it has been found that almost 90% of the men die a violent death in search of food or security. This activity was given to men, and along with this activity the possibility of death. In middle ages, the only employment available was that of a soldier. Men were employed and died. I was just thinking as to why men accepted these dangerous works to do and opted for death, whereas women lived longer in the shelter of cave or home. In ancient days marriage was sacred. It was a divine right of a woman. It was also a divine duty of a man, to marry a woman, to discharge what is called "Pitri Rrin" (father's debt). Marriage vow was unbreakable. Due to high mortality rate of men, and longevity of women; polygamy was moral and allowed.
    The situation changed. With development of science and technology, our planet becomes a safer place to live. Employment becomes available outside military also. Women opted to work outside. I am surprised to find the smartness of human females- as long as working outside was dangerous, they preferred the safety of home and the moment it becomes safer to work outside home, they decided to work outside home. Same goes with marriage- now it becomes possible for a woman to live alone, without support of a man- divorce becomes acceptable and moral. The sacred marriage becomes a personal choice.
    The smartness of womenhood does not stop here. They alleged that man has exploited women for thousands of years. They were not allowed to work outside home. They were kept in bondage in marriage. And surprisingly, many men believe this argument. To correct this historical wrong they are advocating various privileges to be given to women! This article is an attempt to examine the reasons of such manipulation of man.
    There is a basic dichotomy between men and women. Men want sex. It is said that men think about sex every 55 seconds. On the contrary women do not want sex. In a recent book, Why Women have Sex (Cindy Metson & David Buss), the authors say,
    "Research has shown that most men find most women at least somewhat sexually attractive, whereas most women do not find most men sexually attractive at all….."
    Thus sex becomes a bargaining tool in the hand of women. Men wanted sex all the time. Women have monopoly on this demand of men. Due to this dichotomy men become a "Sexual Slaves", i.e. they can be asked to do work which were dangerous and which women do not want to do. That is the beginning of slavery. Such manipulation of men is also evident in nature like some birds forcing males to construct a nest before they mate etc.
    Cultural development perpetuated this slavery of men and monopoly of women. Sex outside marriage was seen as taboo. Sex, which is a natural activity like eating or sleeping was given a sacred place. To reduce the supply of sex, prostitution was made illegal. All these cultural developments increased men's dependence on a single woman for sex, so that slavery of the man can be perpetuated.
    In course of time a myth was created- "power of sexual desire". In my view sexual desire is there and some power is also there behind it. But power of "food desire" or "sleep desire" is much more powerful than "sex desire". The power of sexual desire was created artificially by reducing supply of sex, by suppressing sexual independence, by prohibiting free trade in sex etc.
    The effect of sex slavery is also seen today. In today's world men work harder, in all dangerous situation, share their earning with the women, pay large amount of taxes to state….. and live much lower than the woman. Society and state condition them to marry to perpetuate their slavery. These developments have made man a slave, a sexual slave. In the society there is nothing like power of a man, there is only slavery of a man. Men must understand their slavery. If they don't understand it, they will be treated as slaves and abused as exploiter. They will be living in the myth of "male power" and dying early. The "myth of male power" also allow state to make anti-men laws so that slavery of men can be perpetuated through power of law.
    The slavery of men is not in their chains, it is in their ignorance.

    By Rajesh Kumar

    Posted 6 years ago #
  2. humanbeing2
    Member

    In middle ages, the only employment available was that of a soldier. Men were employed and died. I was just thinking as to why men accepted these dangerous works to do and opted for death, whereas women lived longer in the shelter of cave or home-

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    I refuse to believe this story... what about farmers, blacksmith, goldsmith, traders, labours who worked in farms.. they were not soldiers??? people did not depend on only hunting for food. what about agriculture and livestock? whether it was in cave or outside mortality rate was high for both man and woman. in fact woman bore more than two childrens that time and undernurished as they had to depend on their man for protection and providing food. there was no control on deceases or vaccination ..there were no doctors too.

    humanity consists of man women (old & adult) and childrens. not all can be soldiers??

    Posted 6 years ago #
  3. Dr.Dsouza
    Member

    The effect of sex slavery is also seen today. In today's world men work harder, in all dangerous situation, share their earning with the women, pay large amount of taxes to state...
    and his wife file case for having sex with his wife, as he raped her; even she slept with him willingly. and burdon of proof lies on Men.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  4. rohand
    Member

    I refuse to believe this story... what about farmers, blacksmith, goldsmith, traders, labours who worked in farms.. they were not soldiers??? people did not depend on only hunting for food. what about agriculture and livestock?-------------------------------------------------------------------------

    Farmers, blacksmith, goldsmith or any other such professionals consisted of men who doubled up as soldiers unlike today where there are full time soldiers. The point is that the dangerous work, hazardous and life-threatening work was vested with the men and men didn't cry about equality then because of their sexual slavery to women.

    whether it was in cave or outside mortality rate was high for both man and woman. in fact woman bore more than two childrens that time and undernurished as they had to depend on their man for protection and providing food. there was no control on deceases or vaccination ..there were no doctors too.

    Mortality rate was higher for men than for women. Even today, it is so. Infact, polygamy was prevalent because of this reason. There were few men and many women and those few men's lives was always uncertain because it involved dealing with vagaries of nature and wild animals. A hunt for food, be it in the wild, or an agricultural land, meant dealing with wild animals, snakes etc. Yes, women bore more than 2 kids but what makes you think that they were undernourished? It is your imagination. Just because they had to depend on men, it does not mean so.

    Yes, there were no doctors as today but their food was far more nutritious and there was no pollution as today. Their resistance power was much greater than us

    humanity consists of man women (old & adult) and childrens. not all can be soldiers??----------------------------

    If women talk about equality now, why couldn't they talk about equality then when providing meant dealing with wild animals and vagaries of nature? Just because now there are machines, and threat of nature has receded, women are seeking equality of gender. Even then, they are blaming the men for "keeping them within the four walls of the house in the past". Whereas in reality, the men were enslaved by the women who made them to protect and provide them risking their lives.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  5. rohand
    Member

    and his wife file case for having sex with his wife, as he raped her; even she slept with him willingly. and burdon of proof lies on Men.

    such stupid, pro-women laws exist because of the sexual slavery of the men! Men are slaves to women because of their sexual needs and women know this far too well and they exploit this weakness. MEN ARE THE WEAKER SEX, NOT WOMEN. MEN ARE THE WEAKER SEX BECAUSE OF THEIR WEAKNESS FOR THE WEAKER SEX.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  6. humanbeing2
    Member

    The point is that the dangerous work, hazardous and life-threatening work was vested with the men and men didn't cry about equality then because of their sexual slavery to women.
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    you mean to say there was no contribution of women during that period other than providing sex. who looked after home & took care of childrens and old.? each one contributed according to physical ability towards the family. only if it was necessary man from other occupations joined the army and that too if they were physically capable and young.

    During that period epedimic(cholera/plague)outbrake, natural calamity such has draught, floods was also common which does not spare even woman children, old. you cannot give the reason of death only because of hunting/war. snake can bite anyone. woman also used to work in field.
    what about no of woman dieing during child birth?. medical complication can happen to a person having nutritious food also.

    man and woman depended on each other for their requirement and lived as family in a society.

    what makes you think that woman do not have urge for sex ? they do not have sexual needs??
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    Posted 6 years ago #
  7. Dr.Dsouza
    Member

    Rohan; its
    MAN IS WEAK IN FRONT OF WEAKER SECTION.

    inhumanbeing2 you said who looked after home & took care of childrens and old.?
    what a joke; todays majority women are not as you say.
    if you ask my neighbours; they will tell you, my house was clean neat when i was alone (i was staying alone in Bombay) than after marriage as she was housewife.
    And you say took care of Children
    read this http://mynation.net/abio/she-stopped-breast-feed-to-save-her-beauty/ and you will know.
    today women her beauty is foremost than child.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  8. humanbeing2
    Member

    woman looked after home & took care of childrens and old in the olden days when husband goes out for earning/hunting.

    todays woman (towns & cities) have dual responsbility home makers and wage earners.

    giving one eg of woman(may be she has a different story to tell) and repeating it again again will not prove anything

    Posted 6 years ago #
  9. Dr.Dsouza
    Member

    You said women;
    so i gave one Women example; and there are other men too with their side of same type of Story
    so whatever white is not milk always

    Posted 6 years ago #
  10. humanbeing2
    Member

    even their wives r not here in the forum to give their version. what can be done if the person has yellow fever. for him everything is yellow whether white milk or yellow milk.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  11. Dr.Dsouza
    Member

    so we proved again.
    whatever you , Gulati, wrote was a sob story and we donot have your husband to tell the truth.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  12. humanbeing2
    Member

    how did u prove? you assume that spouses do not cheat. for you only woman cheat. and you are not able to believe it as we are in this forum. what is truth is truth and if u r not believing it. it is ur personal opinion. in my case my husband cud not deny as i had caught him.

    Posted 6 years ago #

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