poor men, and stone hearted women
mr blue...i would say this is onesided love...your wife is not interested in you from the first day of your marriage...she must have married you for some starnge reason ...and most important ...i don't think one's parents are involved in this...no parents want their son/daughter life would spoil like this...everyone wants that their child would settled....its human nature....
Rightly said Gulati;
thats what todays women are, they are not ready for married life, thats full of responsibilities, they marry for strange reasons, that money,
Mr.Blue now you heard it from women. so forget your bitter half and move on.
crying over splitmilk is total waste.man can do better without women.
read this http://mynation.net/abio/if-i/ and you will know the TRUTH of life.
Todays women are groomed to work and manage home. with education & confidence she should be able to withstand all the difficulties. loss of companion can also be due to death or some other reason. what about them. with child as a additional responsbility it is difficult for a women for some time to manage work and child.
Dsouza himself is married for second time and he is advicing man can do better without women :-)
reconciliation needs efforts from both the partners. you have no choice but to move on..may be u will find someone like u want someday... time will not wait for anyone
YES man can do better without women.
The reputation/money/fame and respect i earned not because of the women i married. she married to me because i am having all this.
Gulati after all tu tu me me here is legal point to your problem.
Kiran Mandal Vs Mohini Mandal:
Where a wife is found to be of bad temperature and makes false allegations against her husband that he had illicit relations with his brother's wife. It amounted to an act of cruelty.
Find judgement here.
Dr dsouza...i would again say...its not an easy task to stay at one's parents house with a child...nobody wants to break her own house by stupid false alegations and waste her time and money.
Don't worry ...in my case i have a very strong proof i.e.proof about illicit relation of my husband and his brother's wife.
dr dsouza...its true a women marry a man because of its reputation/money/fame/respect...
no parents would marry their daughter to a (kanjar);so don't be arrogant....but if the man is involved in bad things than he would loses all these things....
Women use men for their upliftment in each area i.e. fame, respect, money, status. The girls who were not given sufficient money by their parents, start getting full control over the house and money earned by her husband and because of this their ego rises and when this becomes a habit then they start showing ego to her husband and when Husband reacts, they use the power given by the law to them. If her parents are not rich, they too join her eyeing the money from the person. This ego is big enough to initiate wars, murders, suicides and offcourse break the own house.
With the change in language and use of filthy words in your post The same is pretty visible with you too here.
women marry a man because of his reputation/money/fame/respect...
marriage is a Conscious decision both man and woman. if woman marries man seeing his qualification/wealth/position. man too sees physical appearance, education and other qualities in a woman before deciding to marry. but once married she is a equal partner and she will bear the child (legal heir). This is how family civilisation forms. Hindu culture or any other culture does not permit extra marital affairs which will break the family and distroy childs life.
then y does wife leave her husband inspite of man having reputation/money/fame/respect... will she not continue to live in luxury had she not left him.?? bear all injustice?no educated woman will bear injustice. and y she will/should not use laws which protect woman and live in peace with dignity.
u r telling a hopothetical option.
if that is true then why did my wife put me under false allegations.
now she is telling in her society that she left me becoz i have a second wife. when she came to know about this i along with my so called second wife tortured her and was rescued by passerby with help of police.
now tell me does your rule applies to this case
actually what u said may be true in few cases but not in all cases.
my dad used to love her more than my sister.never objected in my 4 months married life to anything she do or say,instead he used to tell me to adjust with her as she has come to our family leaving her own.thats what is culture in my family.still she roped my parents in all cases.
bcoz she wants money and may be want to get married to someone else.i donot know why and we shared happy moments just 10 days before she fled.
we could never thought till date that she can do this to our family.
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