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  1. humanbeing2
    Member

    Mr. Blue- I am against injustice whether it is done to man or woman. if your wife has filed so many false cases DV,498A,377,504,506,34 why cannot you prove yourself not guilty?? why was she not working if you had no objection?

    Posted 6 years ago #
  2. blue
    Member

    gulati ji

    we are all human. we make mistakes and we correct ourselves.everything can be acheive. no one can gaurantee life.
    plz try for once atleast,but it should be forgeting abt past and getting ur husband back,not by force but by love.if a woman wants she can do that.
    men will never obey u with force ,they are hungry for love.plz understand this.ur life will be smooth and easy.

    good bless u

    Posted 6 years ago #
  3. humanbeing2
    Member

    my sincere advice, i donot want reply,u should do introspection-
    WHY DON'T U WANT A REPLY.

    1. are u ready to lose ur husband to ur bhabhi(so that she get what she want0? (considering what u told is true)
    YOU HAVE ALREADY LOST UR HUSBAND AND Y DO U WANT TO LIVE WITH SUCH A MAN WHOM U CANNOT TRUST, RESPECT AND LOVE. DO U DESRVE SUCH A LIFE PARTNER. FORGET HIM AND MOVE ON...WHY SHOULD U NOT LIVE WITH SELF RESPECT AND DIGNITY.

    2.will u be happy with the money? is money everything?
    WITHOUT MONEY CAN U BUY A MEDICINE OR MILK? MONEY IS NOT EVERYTHING BUT IS NEEDED FOR SUSTAIN LIFE .
    YOU WILL BE HAPPY IF YOUR CHILD IS HAPPY AND AT THE MOMENT YOU NEED FINANCIAL SUPPORT TO RAISE THE CHILD AND GIVE THE LIFE WHAT SHE DESERVE.

    3. are u so week that u cannot take away ur husband from her bhabhi(only if what u said is right) using your charm?
    YOU ARE HIS LEGALLY WEDDED WIFE AND MOTHER OF HIS CHILD NOT APSARA TO CHARM HIM. IS HE GIVING YOU PROTECTION OR THE PLACE OF EQUAL LIFE PARTNER (HUSBAND)? RELATION WITH BHABHI IS EQUAVALENT TO RELATION OF A MOTHER AND THIS TYPE OF ARRANGEMENT IS NOT SOCIALLY ACCEPTABLE THOUGH THE FAMILY SUPPORTS.WHY DO U WANT TO LIVE IN SUCH A FAMILY WITHOUT FAMILY VALUES?? IS THAT WHAT U WANT TO GIVE TO UR CHILD?

    4.what answers your child will ask u in future? WITH TIME U WILL BECOME WISE TO ANSWER EACH QUESTION MAY BE YOU NEED NOT ANSWER ANY THE CHILD IS CLEVER ENOUGH TO UNDERSTAND HER SURROUNDING NOW A DAYS. GIVE ALL THE LOVE AND FAMILY VALUES/PRINCIPLES TO HER SO SHE UNDERSTAND WHAT IS WRONG AND WHAT IS RIGHT. THERE ARE MANY WHO HAVE REMARRIED AND SETTLED. YOU SHOULD NEVER LOOSE HOPE.

    i will say u can still save ur marriage.i know u have the capability. for me try for atleast once. best of luck

    WHAT IS THE USE OF SAVING THE MARRIAGE WHEN HE DOES NOT KNOW THE MEANING OF MARRIAGE AND RESPONSIBILITY. YOU HAVE NOT FILED ANY CASES AT THE MOMENT THOUGH U CUD JUST FOR THE SAKE OF THE CHILD. BUT DID THIS MAN EVER THINK ABOUT UR LIFE AND CHILD'S LIFE. HE HAS NOT SHOWN ANY INTEREST TO SUSTAIN THIS MARRIAGE AS HE HAS ALREADY FILED FOR DIVORCE. MARRIAGE IS UNION OF TWO PERSON NOT ONE.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  4. humanbeing2
    Member

    We are human being first and than man or woman. How many of us agree our mistake and try to correct not repeat. We all have one life. Has he expressed to mend himself and ready to get alongwith you for child leaving behind his past and present???. Love is not something which you can take by force it is blind. One who is getting the love from outside marriage why will he come to u. who does not want to be loved whether man/woman/child/mother. Child support you will get by legal fight if not by verbal talk.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  5. blue
    Member

    human being
    first: she had left job 1.5 years before marriage and got engaged with me by telling she is working.i found out, she cried,i give her mercy and we got married.i
    i tried my level best to find her a job,but she will never attend a interview but will cry for job.god only knows what she wanted. she is still not working and wants money to sustain herself though she is an qualified engineer.

    second: i wil prove myself innocent but it will take years bcoz thats how indian law works.i have enough evidences.

    third: she left house not sparing even my underwear and shaving cream.

    fourth: plz donot break someone's life if u cannot make it. its very easy to provoke someone in the mind frame of ms gulati.we should try to save marriages.

    fifth: do u know what is ipc 377,its sodomny,thats what she alleged.even in medical exam she told medical persons is u cannot get 377 charge him with 376(rape). so thats how my wife is

    sixth: i am not against women.i am against the misuse of law.why she had entangled my parents who donot stay with us.allegations on them are,they instigate me to beat her.as per law do thy deserve 498a?? no

    seventh: she is a well qualified lady,donot want to do job,just sit and enjoy money,cried every where to send me to jail.even divorce judge told her that u r saying lies,go with him,she said u do ur job and give me divorce

    eigth:she is as tall as me and much healthier than me,she alleged that i tied her hand and then did intercource forcefully and sodomny is done daily from date of honemoon

    ninth: she alleged that i used to lock her in room and go to office. where as she used to go to parlours

    tenth: allegation,i doubt her and did not allow her to call anyone. when i recharged every month her mobile with 350 rs

    so madam... u tell me what should i do, pamper her,lick her feet bcoz she is female... sorry i cannot do that.

    i still respect all ladies,so advicing gulati ji to try sincerely

    Posted 6 years ago #
  6. Dr.Dsouza
    Member

    What a silly question
    if your wife has filed so many false cases DV,498A,377,504,506,34 why cannot you prove yourself not guilty ??

    Everyone knows, Indian women no need to prove anything, her crocodile tears and sob story is enough for indian legal system.
    if women says her husband is beating her, no one ask for evidence, burdon of proof lies on man.
    and if man is beaten by wife also and Man complain, no one will beleive in him, coz again burdon of proof lies on man.

    Rekhal i say you raped me, can you prove you did`t raped me...?

    Posted 6 years ago #
  7. humanbeing2
    Member

    with so many false cases will you still try to patch up with your wife? will u try to save ur marriage.
    what is use to save marriage without foundation.

    you have to first prove the allegation then rekha can defend herself if she is not guilty? defence is based on how the allegation is proved?

    Posted 6 years ago #
  8. Dr.Dsouza
    Member

    Indian legal system do not provide men any defence against crocodile tears and false alegations of women, thats why supreme court called it LEGAL TERRORISM.
    Indian women can prove anything coz she has immunity from Indian Government sponsored by NCW/WCD
    I can show you our all members wives complaint and none proved that their husband demanded dowry, all Chargesheets are filed just on words.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  9. blue
    Member

    i want her back due to my unconditional love for her

    Posted 6 years ago #
  10. Anonymous

    My feelings r also the same as of mr blue....its true whats the fun if you want your spouse back and they are not interested to live with u..(unka dil kahin aur hi laga ****....)

    i got very upset after knowing that the wife of mr blue has not spare his parents also...its very sad...people should not misuse the law...

    Cheers! for humanbeing2 ...

    Posted 6 years ago #
  11. humanbeing2
    Member

    Mr. Blue,
    do u still love her? y .. even after so many allegation. don't u have self respect and dignity? what if she hates u and does not love u will ur marriage withstand with such negitive attitude. would u want to spend rest of your life with such unfaithful partner. is your future, career and life secure with such partner?. what if you had child and had this happended after. can you trust her ? you could have saved your marriage if these cases were not filed. and if the arguments/actions which resulted in the filing cases had been avoided. if problems between u were sorted out with discussions. every action has reaction. if she has falsely file so many cases she is having revengeful attitude which is more dangerous and it is surely result of some grave injury either it is emotional or physical. ur estranged wife will anyways not get maintenance as she is still capable of earning and educated ( as per law)money cannot be only reason

    Posted 6 years ago #
  12. blue
    Member

    she was my first love.so still some where i love her. i agree with ur all points.
    but i cannot find any better reasons for her doing so,she has already taken all gold of our family. now she wants divorce as soon as possible with a huge allimony.
    why will she do that.
    i asked her before marriage that if she donot want to marry me,she is free.but she said r u doubting me,i donot have any affair.
    also whenever i ask about his old pals or past life after marriage she will start quarelling,though she is comfortable to ask and listen mine.

    today got info that she is now spreading roumours that i had burned her and was admitted to hospital. and again that she was recued by some stangers from my home after listening/reading her letter thrown outside.

    now u tell me what is this?
    she never allowed me event to touch her mobile but used to check mine. now i donot know what was her past and cannot see anyother motive except money.

    as a lady of good brain.u tell me what was my mistake. was it to marry a engineer.she is claiming that i had not permitted her to work after marriage,whereas she had left job well before marriage.

    i think her parents are behind this or her lawyer. donot know.

    Posted 6 years ago #

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