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  1. Dr.Dsouza
    Member

    if they are raised equaly then why not pay maintenance to husband if wife is working and earning...?

    Posted 6 years ago #
  2. humanbeing2
    Member

    wife cannot claim maintenance from unemployed husband and wealthy wife has been ordered to pay maintenance to husband.. such orders have been passed in the past.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  3. humanbeing2
    Member

    Dear Gulati,

    he cannot escape from interim maintenance/child support as the orders have already been passed. take advice from your advocates for the next course of action and keep track of his job profile and whereabouts?

    Posted 6 years ago #
  4. Dr.Dsouza
    Member

    such orders are one in million, and passed only after fighting upto SC.
    but why most of the working women also file for maintenance, even they know, they are not eligible. and win; coz some men do not know nor their lawyers will not tell them working capable women cannt claim maintenance.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  5. Dr.Dsouza
    Member

    and we also track him and tell that she is working and she has no right to claim maintenance.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  6. partha
    Member

    gulati.k19

    Posted 6 years ago #
  7. Anonymous

    Thank u humanbeing for your support....

    Mr sgrover 1973, i don't know why are u so tenzed....very sad....i'll ask you what is the definition of dutiful wife...i know you will have in your mind either your mother or sister...If this could happen to our own sister than what...will you count your mother and sister in the category of mausere behne......

    Yes i could have file dowry or DV act case on my husband but did not do this just becoz...he is father of my child unfortunately...(kaash main vidvah hi hoti)..

    Yes i have seen my husband with his bhabhi in same bed several times....becoz his bhabhi is married to an impotent man...
    Even his bhabhi committed this to me also that i have been physical to your husband just becoz to have a baby
    I cried a lot at that time and scold her for this thing...but she said don't tell me all these things are done with the permission of our mother in law...i was shocked...even i told to my parents about this but they always said me to adjust it your husband will improve he will leave that lady soon if you conceive ...Than i thought this could change my husband..but not at all,.. after the delivery of baby...he left me on delvery bed several times to meet his bhabhi...he even did not interested for his child...for one year i try to develop love of my daughter to his father but no...he is always thinking about that lady...he did not give money for the milk to his child also i have to borrow money from my parents....he use to travel every week alone to meet that lady from job city to hometown...

    I am not working anywhere in fact i am preparing for my higher studies so that i can lead a better life with my daughter ...I just need maintenance becoz my daughter is very small i can't leave her alone to earn money...
    For every single penny i have to ask from my parents...
    Soon i hope i would get a better job after i finished my studies but it will take many years ...i would have not been interested to take money from my husband...he should better give to his mistress...bhabhi ke naam par dhabba....God will not forgive him...yeh ek ma ki baddua hai...

    Posted 6 years ago #
  8. Dr.Dsouza
    Member

    Gulati, humanbeing just like you; another side of same coin, no wonder she will support all women who file false cases and allegation just to get money from husband.
    now it’s clear, you not only want husband money, but indirectly praying for his death saying ....kaash main vidvah hi hoti.
    your profile says you are dietitian, but here you say you are not working, and with parents single penny you cannt go for higher studies.
    we are very well aware how our wives blamed every women around us having relation with them and you are no different.
    and it clearly says women vs another Women

    Posted 6 years ago #
  9. Adv.Kachave
    Blocked

    If it is true that summons are not served upon your husband, you have to take steps in court, if address is same & he is not receiving , you have to apply for substitute service & paper publication, your problem will be solved, your advocate should know it, be in contact with him.
    http://www.jaihindlegal.com 9821387099, 9224799546

    Adv.Ramchandra N.Kachave
    98, 2nd floor, Esplanade Mansion,Kala Ghoda, Near City Civil Sessions Court,
    Mumbai-4000023
    Posted 6 years ago #
  10. humanbeing2
    Member

    aise pati ke hone se na hona behtar hai... but the fact is he is there to give you more problems.
    you are educated and good that you are not wasting your time and using it for further studies. you seem to be very young and its very unfortunate that you will not be able to stop your husband. once he has child from his bhabhi he will not think of his own child. as it is he is not bothered to see the child. try to find a better advocate and get in touch with NGO who can help you. if your husband & inlaws are acting very smart why should you not use the law which is for protection for such distressed woman. you are doing right as long as you are honest and not misusing law but see to it that you have enough proof. You have to fight for your maintenance/child support RIGHTS as you are not working and child is very small and dependent on you. Do what Adv. Kachave has advised. your child is your emotional strength. you are not alone she is with you remember.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  11. humanbeing2
    Member

    dsouza does your profile say you are a qualified DOCTOR?? being a admin/member you have advantage to find the ip and other details. are you not misuing your position as a member to dig the information which is not relavant to you.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  12. humanbeing2
    Member

    All the man against whom the cases are filed will always say it is a false case. true or false is ascertained later.
    what has been actually seen and not heard cannot be said "blame". and in your case his bhabhi has accepted it.

    Posted 6 years ago #

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