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  1. Dr.Dsouza
    Member

    Most indian women are not doing anything in intimate act than just spread their legs.
    they enjoy sex but man endup paying.
    they think they are doing great social work, and blame husband for not giving marital happiness.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  2. Anonymous

    Mr Rohand..you say men should be given the custody of child....what about the men who are living with mistress...what would be the impact to the children of these parents...i did not left my matrimonial home but thrown out of the house with child by husband mistress in a conspiracy....What could i do it....my parents supported me and my daughter...You believe or nor ...this i don't care it...you are a men so u would take side of such people .(THIS IS NOT AN OLD STORY).....I have faced it...

    its true men are treated as Atm machines by most of their wives...this saying is built by men...
    What about mothers who ask money from their sons and sisters who ask money from their brothers..than also you would say men are not atm machines ....

    Why most of the men marry if they are having intimacy with someone else ...even i would say if any of the spouse is having such rellationship should be severly punished

    Many say ...alimony or maintenance should be discarded for educated or capable women ..ok ..just pray for it that it should banned...than what ...what would be the punishment of such men even for women also...
    becoz money is more important to be for their mistress not for their child....

    If all women are prostitute..what about men....why do they go to these protitutes...they want to enjoy sex without money...how could it be possible....if women spread legs..than these son of the bitches also enjoyed these spread legs....they r not satisfied with one pair of spread leg...but want variety of spread legs...they don't see faces...(unka to man kare woh apni maa par bhi chad jaye) I thin k it would be a better idea...free mein hoga..
    In my case my husband has even not spare his brothers wife...Bhabhi which is another mother word...

    Posted 6 years ago #
  3. Dr.Dsouza
    Member

    Gulati you are asking to punish Bhabi or whoever who has relation with you husband. but she is excluded.
    same think you have affair and your husband found out but it is your lover punished under indian law, not you.
    we asked Indian Government/ncw/wcd to punish both many time but they turn blind eye, even they know to clap both hand are needed.
    so we are not responsible for your problem, its other women.
    so moral of the Story women dug women grave.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  4. Dr.Dsouza
    Member

    Mother has right to ask money from her children, as she raised them and there is law and judgment too too to look after them. and brother giving to his sister with love coz they have blood relation, it is other women jelous when your husband gives his money to his sisters.
    When he is giving you Roti/kapda/makhan you have no right what he do with his money. same if you are earning after giving your half share to run home, you can spend your money on your lovers and he has no right to ask you.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  5. Dr.Dsouza
    Member

    Gulati we knew before how much your husband suffered in your clutches now you proved yourself with these words .(unka to man kare woh apni maa par bhi chad jaye)

    Wife is not free sex, man pay more than what a prostitute charge. and they are far far better than todays feminists and Legal terrorists, they want money without any service. Blood suckers.

    Land of Krishna and Kamasutra most men feel like they sleeping with DEAD BODY, who do nothing than spreading their legs.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  6. rohand
    Member

    Mr Rohand..you say men should be given the custody of child....what about the men who are living with mistress...what would be the impact to the children of these parents...--------------------------------------------------------------------------- You cannot say something in the air and get yourself alimony and maintenance in the name of the child. You have to prove the allegation. Moreover, this is the era of equality and hence custody of a child cannot be given to women alone. It has to be shared between husband and wife.

    i did not left my matrimonial home but thrown out of the house with child by husband mistress in a conspiracy....What could i do it....my parents supported me and my daughter...You believe or nor ...this i don't care it...------------------------------------------------------------------------ These are the same sob stories that we get to hear in false 498A and Dv cases. Allegations don't mean anything. It needs to be proved

    you are a men so u would take side of such people .(THIS IS NOT AN OLD STORY).....I have faced it...---------------------------------------------------------- This is the feminist era and all men are demonised. Just because I am a man does not mean I support the misdeeds of other men. But since I am very much aware of the horrendous problems which many husbands are facing, I would say that this is a **** and bull story. However, I haven't concluded. You need to prove.

    its true men are treated as Atm machines by most of their wives...this saying is built by men...-------------------------------------------------- Sayings don't come from nowhere. We men are experiencing it. Experience speaks louder than words. It has greater impact. STOP TREATING MEN AS ATM MACHINES.

    What about mothers who ask money from their sons and sisters who ask money from their brothers..than also you would say men are not atm machines ....----------------------------------------------------------- As I said, men are treated as ATM machines by the society. Society includes everybody - mother, father, sister, govt. That is the reason why govt takes men and relaxes women. Because govt also treats men as ATM machines!!!!

    Why most of the men marry if they are having intimacy with someone else ...even i would say if any of the spouse is having such rellationship should be severly punished---------------------------------------------------------------- You should ask those men who have intimacy with some other women. Not me. I need to tell you that if a woman has an extra-marital affair, the laws do not permit prosecution. Section 497 is anti-male and protects **** women. Where is the equality?

    Posted 6 years ago #
  7. rohand
    Member

    Many say ...alimony or maintenance should be discarded for educated or capable women ..ok ..just pray for it that it should banned...than what ...what would be the punishment of such men even for women also...
    becoz money is more important to be for their mistress not for their child....----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- You need to separate out the issue of alimony or maintenance and the allegation of adultery. They are two different things. First of all, when a woman commits adultery, the laws are silent about it. No laws permit the prosecution of women living in adultery. So men alone are being prosecuted for adultery. Is this fair? The law has to be equal for everybody. There needs separate laws for dealing with adultery. That is the solution according to me.

    If all women are prostitute..what about men....why do they go to these protitutes...they want to enjoy sex without money...how could it be possible....if women spread legs..than these son of the bitches also enjoyed these spread legs....they r not satisfied with one pair of spread leg...but want variety of spread legs...they don't see faces...(unka to man kare woh apni maa par bhi chad jaye) I thin k it would be a better idea...free mein hoga..--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- There is a wrong notion in all societies, especially, in the Indian society about prostitutes. All societies, especially, the Indian society has wrong notions about sex. It has suppressed sex to a great extent leading to all kinds of crimes, a misinterpretation of all religions and texts. Sex is a basic physiological, mental, emotional and even a spiritual need of the body and the soul. I have respect for prostitutes because they are providing sex, a basic need of a human being. Why should anybody look down upon them? No religion or culture should go against the laws of nature - breathing, eating, sleeping, procreation/sex, excretion. So, why look down upon somebody offering you these? Do you look down upon the cook who prepares food, the hotelier who serves you food, the companies that provide you with toilet sinks? This is because of the confusion in values. Now, let us not get into this side-debate of prostitution and sex. Many countries such as France have legalised prostitution. I see nothing wrong in it. I see nothing wrong in male prostitution either.

    Having said that, it would be wrong to co-relate or draw a parallel between 498a misusers and prostitutes. People who file false charges of 498A, DV, rape or those educated women who file alimony or maintenance or claim unreasonable rights in property are EXTORTIONISTS AND BLACKMAILERS. A prostitute has her rates fixed and pre-determined.

    However, there are many prostitutes and call girls who have got into this business of extortion which is more lucrative and high yielding. Many such unscrupulous women are into various women's groups and commissions. Afterall, its about money.

    In my case my husband has even not spare his brothers wife...Bhabhi which is another mother word...---------------------------------------------------------------------- That is your allegation. You need to prove that. Moreover, even if I assume it to be true for the moment, you cannot assume that the man alone is responsible for it or initiated it. There are many cases where the women are the initiators.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  8. Anonymous

    Thank you Mr rohand for your advice...i have already proved it in the court about my problem...it was not the difficult situation...Yes you r right women are the initiaters...my mil,sil were the initiaters to this problem..they supported my husband...The judge has already passed the interim orders ...Now my husband can't escape from this...He has done wrong thing...he should be punished...punishment is very simple..to pay maintenance for his daughter ...i did not ask for myself.....
    Men do not create all the situations that women endure...it is also mothers and fathers along with society who set the role models that children tend to learn and emulate. To blame all men for what has transpired in the past is incorrect. To punish or hate all men for any abuse a woman has recieved at the hands of a man is to ignore the fact that it was one specific man. I myself have had a few bad encounters with males as I have with females in different situations. For me to hate all women for what one woman or many women have done to me is unfair to all women. For me to hate all men for what one man or many men did to me is unfair to all men. This can further be extended to any animal, human, business, or entity. Granted often the majority of people have problems which sometimes can hurt or interfere in life we are overall responsible for our own lives and the choices we make. I have known many wonderful men as much as I have known many terrible men. The same for women. But in general the majority are about the middle to good. Not too many extremely good or extremely bad men or women have I met. Before I go further into bad or good I would like to explain that it is not so much that a person is bad or good it is that they have some habits or behaviors that are a problem for me as they are not behaviors or habits I find unacceptable. I am sure at some time the same has been thought of me.
    At the end i would say...
    A Man before marriage is - Superman. After Marriage - Gentleman. 5years later -Watchman. 10 Years later - Apne Hi Jaal Mein fasaa hua Spiderman. that’s why its better to be a Hanuman.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  9. blue
    Member

    gulati ji
    i will still advice you to try to reconcile with your husband and stay with him. at the end of the day u only will be happy. this interim maintainance will only satisfy your ego, at the end of the day u will be loser.plz try to understand this.
    regards
    Blue

    Posted 6 years ago #
  10. Dr.Dsouza
    Member

    Her husband said, he will not take her back, at any cost. for falsely accusing, there are better women out there.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  11. humanbeing2
    Member

    There is a wrong notion in all societies, especially, in the Indian society about prostitutes. All societies, especially, the Indian society has wrong notions about sex. It has suppressed sex to a great extent leading to all kinds of crimes, a misinterpretation of all religions and texts. Sex is a basic physiological, mental, emotional and even a spiritual need of the body and the soul. I have respect for prostitutes because they are providing sex, a basic need of a human being. Why should anybody look down upon them? No religion or culture should go against the laws of nature - breathing, eating, sleeping, procreation/sex, excretion. So, why look down upon somebody offering you these? Do you look down upon the cook who prepares food, the hotelier who serves you food, the companies that provide you with toilet sinks? This is because of the confusion in values. Now, let us not get into this side-debate of prostitution and sex. Many countries such as France have legalised prostitution. I see nothing wrong in it. I see nothing wrong in male prostitution either.
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    - rohan, i agree with you on this subject. i am sure you will agree with me that sex is a integral part of marriage. is she not denied this basic need?? will he give her that basic need which binds the marriage.
    if you live in society. you have a set norm,ethical and unethical. pros** offer in exchange of money. is it right to take from anyone who is offering you sex. even from bhabhi/sister/mother/child or a minor child of someone. so you cannot say no. man also use force to get it but it is different thing that you refuse to believe though it is common? so your refuse to believe news story that their is no rape of girl by her own father.in what way woman is a intiator? if you encourage pros*** our future childrens will not have family ( father & mother)

    gulati, you have asked for child support and your husband does not want child custody. which you will get it. there cannot be reconciliation even if you have a child. broken glasses cannot join. other basic need you can get even if you are unmarried/divorced. You will be deprived of sex that even otherwise you were not getting.To teach such man a good lesson is to intiate a legal action which are there to protect you. he will have to anyway spend the same amount(child support) to fight the cases to defend himself. it is no use of discussing/complaining here. law should not be misused but used when it is required to be used.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  12. humanbeing2
    Member

    if 1 woman(bhabhi) is cause of your misery. then 2 man (your husband and brother inlaw) r also cause of your misery. forget about the cause think about the effect to your family( you, your child and your husband).you and your husband are adult and can take care of themselves. child need to be cared by mother in the intial stages of growth. you cannot defy nature. it would be cruel to give away the child to father if you can better take care of the child. if you have taken good care of the child when it was inside you and you can also take care outside too.

    Posted 6 years ago #

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