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  1. Dr.Dsouza
    Member

    When i revert same question you asked, back to you all of a sudden you say.
    "each case will have different reason. same way not all man are same and not all woman are same"
    so you proved another thing that tongue has no bone and you can twist as you wanted.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  2. humanbeing2
    Member

    tongue is controlled by brain remember. whether you youself are a good human being to point out to others their responsbility/mistake this is what i wanted to tell.

    one has to face the consequences for your actions (both for woman). every action has reaction..

    Posted 6 years ago #
  3. rohand
    Member

    what is your advice to this SPECIFIC case of Ms. Gulati, assuming what she is say is true? and father/husband neglected/abandoned the child/wife.------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- I do not believe it to be true. Period. Hence, I do not want to encourage such false cases.

    you are wrong with raise in population employment problem has still aggreviated and not only divorced woman but also young unmarried people find it difficult to get job. not all the company have woman favouring hr policy.
    litracy rate has increase and also competition.-------------------------------------------------------------Population problem may have aggravated but same time the opportunities are much more than earlier times. And, all companies are having pro-women HR policies because it is politically, socially and legally correct to do so. It is easier for women to get jobs than for men to get it. P

    do you consider man fool and woman too intelligent to trap man and have childrens to extort money? is it not concious decision of husband and wife to have a child?---------------------------------------------------------- Men are fools to be living in the medieval era of the15th century protecting and providing women while women have moved onto the 25th century. Most men still think that after marriage they want to have a child and they think its a social obligation of continuation of the family [a medieval mindset]. Until men wake up and move on to the 25th century, these problems will continue. This issue is also about confusion between traditional values and modern values. This confusion is being made best use of by the women to get what they want.

    Institution of marriage has lost its significance in modern times.--------------------------------------------
    this is the only thing I agree with you. I think the feminism is a major contributor to this loss of significance because one of the main objectives of feminism is to destroy the family system as it is being looked upon as an oppression of women.

    laws have been formed based of prevailing situation in our country and to maintenance of law and order. time and again it is amended accordingly. criminal punished will not favour law which say he should be punished. there will criticism and favourism.-------------------------------------------------------------Laws are formed by corrupt lawmakers keeping in mind their vote-banks and the amount of moolah they can get by using the people and system under them to extort. Laws are made for the common man alone with the intention of harassment. Justifications given are all excuses for their shady deals.

    if you say this is not a prevailing situation (majority) then prove it?------------------------------------------------- The proof is already there. Lawmakers are corrupt and they have huge money involved and laws are made to extort in the name and garb of helping some people. Vote-bank politics is also a very big factor in making laws. You want me to prove these?

    Posted 6 years ago #
  4. Dr.Dsouza
    Member

    Action or reaction but you are unable to answer my question i asked.
    that show you agreed to my points and you are guilty.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  5. rohand
    Member

    woman is socially, morally or legally obliged to protect the child in the womb(child support) instead of aborting it .-------------------------------------------------------------------

    This debate is NOT about abortion. We are discussing about child custody and the evil of alimony.

    father is also socially morally and legally obliged to give a child support which he is not giving. what she should do???????-------------------------------------------------------------------------------

    What else can the father do when there is misuse of child support by the lady? No father is against child support. But every father should be against its misuse.

    so she should give the child custody to father who can give the child support and walk away move on and marry some one else. she is nothing to do with the childs once it is out of the womb??.--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Child custody does not mean the mother cannot visit her child. She gets visitation rights. It also allows her to be free from the burden of taking care of the child which enables her to find a job and earn. Besides she can look for a remarriage. Anything wrong in it? Is it wrong for a divorced woman to remarry? Is it a crime for a woman to earn?

    Posted 6 years ago #
  6. rohand
    Member

    He dont want to pay, he want to look after the child.
    Why law is not giving child to him.
    -can u prove u can look after better than ur wife?-----------------------------------------------------------------------------

    Its all about gender equality. Its not about who looks after better or who does not. Gender equality implies that both men and women are equally capable of everything. Period

    coz there is no guarantee that women will spend that money on child.
    -can you guarantee you will spend 100% money on the child and take good care of child??-----------------------------------------------------------------------
    It is the man's money. He earns it and it is his privilege how he spends it. If a man has custody of the child and the wife is made to give child support, then the wife has every reason to ask where her money is going or is the husband spending money on himself. In this case, the husband has custody and it is his money. Nobody can spend all money on the child because the husband also needs to upkeep, his food etc. But then, it is HIS money; not HERS.

    OR
    1st 5 year let it be with mother and mother will pay all, then another 5 years with Father and father will take care.
    when child is wise enough and grownup he/she will decide whom to honor.
    let it be 50/50 .
    - will the child detach himself from mother to come to you? taking the child by force is good for child and mother??can you divide the child 50/50. is it right?---------------------------------------------------------------

    Equality of gender simply means equality in child custody rights too. Most cases, the father ends up being the ATM machine and mother brainwashes the kid into believing that the father is the monster. Is that fair? Our society needs to grow and think of husbands are more than sperm donors and ATM machines.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  7. rohand
    Member

    when there is a matter of child support. you mix up matter of child custody when there is no issue of child custody in the case. if you want you can open another thread to argue.---------------------------------------------------

    It is all about equality. Why should men alone be made to pay for child support and women alone be given child custody? Are men inferior to women? Are men lesser parents?

    Posted 6 years ago #
  8. blue
    Member

    In short according to humanbeing2
    " all men are customers,who should pay for the service they get"
    " all women are service givers and they should get paid for the services to their customers"
    " the by products are the liability of customers for not taking protection and thus fines need to be given "
    if thats marriage, then no need to do marriage in India

    Posted 6 years ago #
  9. Dr.Dsouza
    Member

    blue;
    Are you in Sales or marketing department ?

    Posted 6 years ago #
  10. blue
    Member

    neither
    I am into analysis feild sir
    but why?

    Posted 6 years ago #
  11. blue
    Member

    sir
    i am saying this because not only these ladies are fixing their rates that too without any service but to the enjoyment they received in due course.they will say my ovum never came to fetch ur sprems ,its sperms which came inside and intruded my world,so u pay for this common enjoyment.
    donot worry my wife filed 377 , so she is claiming money and that to without her ovum getting involved.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  12. Dr.Dsouza
    Member

    one word explains what you wrote in 3 lines. thats prosti####
    ten you analysed correctly

    Posted 6 years ago #

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