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  1. humanbeing2
    Member

    that is what i am saying child should be protected and cared in every sense. child is not property. if husband is not paying child support send him to jail.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  2. Dr.Dsouza
    Member

    He dont want to pay, he want to look after the child.
    Why law is not giving child to him.
    coz there is no guarantee that women will spend that money on child.
    OR
    1st 5 year let it be with mother and mother will pay all, then another 5 years with Father and father will take care.
    when child is wise enough and grownup he/she will decide whom to honor.
    let it be 50/50

    Posted 6 years ago #
  3. humanbeing2
    Member

    thats the significance of marriage in modern times.
    before we think about man abandon his wife, we have to think why he Abandoned her.
    if he has not taken any money from her or demanded then there is no question of making money.
    he left her, coz she will not leave him but harass him, and if he is togather he will die half age.
    may be she is not giving him marital happiness.
    IF HUSBAND IS NOT GIVING HER MARITAL HAPPINESS THEN WHAT SHE SHOULD DO?

    she is doing her responsibility- IS HE DOING HIS RESPONSIBILITY
    she is grumbling and murmuring whole day without reason.- IS HE NOT ABUSING AND PHYSICALLY ASSAULTING.
    she fights.- DOES HE NOT FIGHT.
    she is not cooking or cleaning which todays most women call it Slavery (assuming she is house wife)- IS HE PROVIDING AND PROTECTING?

    she is working still think that husband has to pay all her bills? DOES HE SPENDS HIS INCOME ON OTHER WOMEN INSTEAD OF SPENDING FOR HOUSEHOLD EXP.? DOES HE WASTE MONEY TO CONSUME ALCOHOL? IS HE SAVING FOR FUTURE AND UNDERSTANDS HIS RESPONSBILITY TOWARDS HIS CHILDRENS?

    she harass him- DOES HE NOT HARASS
    she give threats of filling false cases- DOES HE NOT GIVE THREAT TO KILL OR DESERTING
    she has Affair or had Affair – HE TO HAS AFFAIRS AND OPENLY DECLARES AND STILL REMAIN CONNECTED
    she told lie at the time of wedding about her- HE TO LIED AT THE TIME OF WEDDING ABOUT HIM
    she hide her past. HE TELLS HE HAD SEVERAL PHYSICAL RELATIONSHIP IN PAST
    she cheated- HE STILL CHEATS.
    bla bla.-
    there should be some reason to leave. coz no man will run away from his marriage; unless force him to do. BOREDOM/GETTING ATTRACTED TO SOMEONE WILL BE ONE REASON THEN .
    WOMAN TOO WILL NOT WANT TO RUN AWAY FROM HER MARRIAGE UNLESS THE SITUATION IN HOUSE FORCES HER.YES MAN DOES NOT WANT TO RUN AWAY SO ONLY HE HAS SECRET AFFAIR NOT A OPEN AFFAIR.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  4. humanbeing2
    Member

    He dont want to pay, he want to look after the child.
    Why law is not giving child to him.
    -can u prove u can look after better than ur wife?

    coz there is no guarantee that women will spend that money on child.
    -can you guarantee you will spend 100% money on the child and take good care of child??

    OR
    1st 5 year let it be with mother and mother will pay all, then another 5 years with Father and father will take care.
    when child is wise enough and grownup he/she will decide whom to honor.
    let it be 50/50 .
    - will the child detach himself from mother to come to you? taking the child by force is good for child and mother??
    can you divide the child 50/50. is it right?

    Posted 6 years ago #
  5. humanbeing2
    Member

    when there is a matter of child support. you mix up matter of child custody when there is no issue of child custody in the case. if you want you can open another thread to argue.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  6. Dr.Dsouza
    Member

    What do you expect in MARITAL HAPPINESS
    or as per you what man has to do to you.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  7. Dr.Dsouza
    Member

    what mans RESPONSIBILITY ? as per you

    Posted 6 years ago #
  8. Dr.Dsouza
    Member

    if he PHYSICALLY ASSAULTING you then you can report it to police, even he is not PHYSICALLY ASSAULTING also you can report and they take complaint.
    Will they take if man say same...?

    Posted 6 years ago #
  9. Dr.Dsouza
    Member

    DOES HE WASTE MONEY TO CONSUME ALCOHOL? IS HE SAVING FOR FUTURE AND UNDERSTANDS HIS RESPONSBILITY TOWARDS HIS CHILDRENS?
    may be he is spending less than what you spend your inch thick makeup. why dont you stop using makeup and save money for future
    drinking or not that you have to decide when you get marry.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  10. Dr.Dsouza
    Member

    WOMAN TOO WILL NOT WANT TO RUN AWAY FROM HER MARRIAGE UNLESS THE SITUATION IN HOUSE FORCES HER.YES MAN DOES NOT WANT TO RUN AWAY SO ONLY HE HAS SECRET AFFAIR NOT A OPEN AFFAIR.
    check all courts judgments. who file for divorce saying there was a domestic violence, even there was none proved.its not men, its women.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  11. Dr.Dsouza
    Member

    she harass him- DOES HE NOT HARASS
    how your husband harassed you ?

    Posted 6 years ago #
  12. humanbeing2
    Member

    d souza,
    in short what you expect from other do you also give?

    In every new thread u come back to talk on marital discord why it happens. but not on how it is to be prevented and resolved.

    each case will have different reason. same way not all man are same and not all woman are same.

    Posted 6 years ago #

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