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  1. humanbeing2
    Member

    so only the husband has duties and the wife doesn't. This wife has fled her matrimonial home and hasn't she gone back on her duty? How do you know that the husband has not performed his duty? Is the husband here to explain his part of the case? Just because the wife alleges extra-marital affairs, does not mean that she is telling the gospel truth. Moreover, please explain the duties of the wife - not just her rights. Rights come with equal duties. Tell me what should a husband do when his wife takes away his child from his home and then refuses to come back and seeks hefty alimony for having stayed for a few months with him?

    why did she fled? what should be her duty according to u? cheating a wife itself is wrong in marriage? what if she is telling the truth and is here for advice. if wife has been illtreated and is tempted to leave her matrimonial house as she cannot bear anymore and also takes the child as he has always been in the care of the mother since her birth. and now needs money to raise the child? what should she do?

    Posted 6 years ago #
  2. humanbeing2
    Member

    I ask you this question. What if this story is false and a cover-up for seeking alimony and maintenance?
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    she has a child from this marriage. child is a equal responsibility of father and mother. so you mean father should not give any child support???

    Posted 6 years ago #
  3. Dr.Dsouza
    Member

    inhumanbeing How do you know Rekhas id is blocked, unless you are same ?
    and now you know, how much general knowledge you have
    you say "don't you eat pork ? what does it eat ?"
    pigs are raised in farm with proper animal feed. i know what you are thinking, coz you cannt think beyond that limit, coz your capacity is that much only.
    Women always failed to undestand actual meaning of words, as i said before about sandpaper and sh*t now; thats why i call them dumb.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  4. Dr.Dsouza
    Member

    you say " child is a equal responsibility of father and mother" so father will pay his responsibility thats half, you pay other half.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  5. humanbeing2
    Member

    then why do women seek for well-settled men for marriage? Why are so many men unable to marry simply because their earnings are less? Why are taxes for women less for the same amount of income? Why is interest on loans less for women while interests for women on deposits more simply because the estrogen runs in their blood? Why do women seek rich men for marriage? Its time to alter this and make the feminists accountable for the change.
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    this policies are for upliftment of woman and there will be time when this will be abolished. can you not see the changes in society for sati system to present modern women.
    it is easy to say estrogen runs in blood of a woman and testostrone in man's blood. what is the effect of estrogen in the body? life is created in woman's body. can you change this? who bears the pains of child birth man or woman?. what ever be child is the product of man and women . marriage comes with duties and responsbility.what should the wife/husband do if their spouses have not cared about the responsbility??

    Posted 6 years ago #
  6. Dr.Dsouza
    Member

    if like freedon more than gold, women should not marry. coz she think marriage is slavery. and she dont want to eat Sh*t

    Posted 6 years ago #
  7. humanbeing2
    Member

    pigs raised in farm eat what they r fed(animal feed) what about the pigs which are not raised in farm. what do they eat. but still people consume pork. they play important part of eco system. sh*t can be used in a better way and earn money to buy gold. it is only your approach and thinking.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  8. rohand
    Member

    why did she fled?-----------------------------------------------------------------------

    She says she fled because of her husband. But we don't know the real fact because we don't have her husband here to tell his side of the story. But I know of many cases where the wife has extra-marital affairs and turns it against the husband. I am not saying that this case is like that. But I am showing you how stories are weaved to perpetuate a lie and several lies.

    what should be her duty according to u?--------------------------------

    the law is very ambiguous and unclear about the duties of a wife. It merely specifies the duties of a man. Is that fair? You tell me what according to you are the duties of a woman?

    cheating a wife itself is wrong in marriage? what if she is telling the truth and is here for advice.--------------------------------
    we don't know who has cheated whom. Cheating wives very often turn it on the husband. Many cases exist that way. Nobody is against alimony in genuine cases, but everybody is against alimony and maintenance to women who are educated and have the ability to earn.

    if wife has been illtreated and is tempted to leave her matrimonial house as she cannot bear anymore and also takes the child as he has always been in the care of the mother since her birth. and now needs money to raise the child? what should she do?----------------------------------------------------------

    Why assume that men are always the perpetuators of hate and torture against women and women are always the victims? Your above quote is best suited for a different era and I agree that in such genuine cases women needed alimony because they were not educated and were not allowed to work. But now, women should support themselves. They should not expect a hafta from the man. However, the man should support the child whether it is with him or with the wife. Just as much as the wife should do so. But why should the wife take away the child when it equally belongs to the husband? Its kidnapping.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  9. rohand
    Member

    she has a child from this marriage. child is a equal responsibility of father and mother. so you mean father should not give any child support???-----------------------------------------------------------------

    When the child is equal responsibility of both parents, why should the woman alone have custody? Are fathers mere ATM machines and sperm donors?

    I never said that the child is not entitled to maintenance. But certainly not the woman!

    By the way, what if this story is a cover-up for getting maintenance for herself? The child is in any case entitled to it. But it could also be a cover for getting herself a bounty

    Posted 6 years ago #
  10. rohand
    Member

    this policies are for upliftment of woman and there will be time when this will be abolished. can you not see the changes in society for sati system to present modern women.----------------------------------------------------

    you haven't answered the questions raised. why do women seek for well-settled men for marriage? Why are so many men unable to marry simply because their earnings are less? Why do women seek rich men for marriage? What has these got to do with policies for upliftment of women? Moreover, what about upliftment of men who have been oppressed and suppressed by society, not allowed to cry, weep, not allowed to express emotions, being considered disposable etc.? You want to rob men of their rights and pay women? This is inhuman and men's activists will oppose it.

    it is easy to say estrogen runs in blood of a woman and testostrone in man's blood. what is the effect of estrogen in the body? life is created in woman's body. can you change this? who bears the pains of child birth man or woman?.---------------------------------------------------------------------

    this is one big excuse of child birth that has been used by women to get undeserving privileges for themselves. In the past, when getting food was difficult and dangerous, would involve tackling wild animals and vagaries of nature, and when providing food for society and family involved threat to life, women used this excuse of child-birth and made men protect and provide them, very often at the cost of their lives. Women were very happy to be inside the four walls of the house then. Now, with industrialisation, mechanisation and with threat of nature having receded, women suddenly want to compete with men and are blaming the men for playing the role of protecting and providing them as a form of their "oppression". Enough is enough! Child birth is not as painful as it is projected to be. Do you know what it takes a man to preserve his sperms and semen? Do you know the quantity of blood needed to form semen? Life is created in the man's body too; not just the woman's.

    And because woman gives birth to a child does not mean concessions in tax. What equality are you propagating when you have double talks? You want equality of convenience and not true equality. This is unacceptable!

    what ever be child is the product of man and women . marriage comes with duties and responsbility.what should the wife/husband do if their spouses have not cared about the responsbility??--------------------------------------------------

    what should the man do when his wife acts like a feminazi the way you are doing now? What with most women today having been brainwashed into becoming feminists? You are talking about duties and responsibilities. Can you spell out the duties and responsibilities of a wife?

    Posted 6 years ago #
  11. humanbeing2
    Member

    rohand,

    when you were a child. did you consider your father as ATM machine for spending money for your education and expenses??

    Posted 6 years ago #
  12. humanbeing2
    Member

    you haven't answered the questions raised. why do women seek for well-settled men for marriage? Why are so many men unable to marry simply because their earnings are less? Why do women seek rich men for marriage? What has these got to do with policies for upliftment of women? Moreover, what about upliftment of men who have been oppressed and suppressed by society, not allowed to cry, weep, not allowed to express emotions, being considered disposable etc.? You want to rob men of their rights and pay women? This is inhuman and men's activists will oppose it.
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    not all women coming from poor family seek wealthy man. nowaday women seek man who are compatible and well settled and also man marry only woman who they find attractive and think they are perfect match. wealth can increase or decrease after marriage. but parents in the arranged marriage want to see their loved one is not deprived of life she enjoyed in her parents house.
    upliftmen of women comes into picture when incidences of injustice/crime against women raises.who is stopping man to express his emotions and considered as disposables? what rights have been robbed from you? how many woman remarry after separation having child? has her life not ruined?(geniune cases).

    Posted 6 years ago #

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