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Harrasment by Husabnd and In laws

(27 posts)
  • Started 6 years ago by chajyo
  • Latest reply from humanbeing2
  1. chajyo
    Member

    thanks for the answer. let me fight for my life and rights.

    Thanks

    Posted 6 years ago #
  2. humanbeing2
    Member

    one thing you understand. marriage will not work if there is no love/trust/respect between the spouse. it is only initial stage of marriage so will not cause you much pain to get out this relation. if you still want to give one more chance just because you still love your husband. you talk to your husband once and request him to meet family councellor along with you. and then decide on the action.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  3. humanbeing2
    Member

    don't get depressed....
    you are educated and independent

    Posted 6 years ago #
  4. Dr.Dsouza
    Member

    we all support you if they really harassed you.
    its waste to time and money fighting with legal issues unless they will not agree amicably.
    do not try to misuse law, which may trap you in more problems. if you approch lawyer/police they will advice you file domestic violence on them.
    Rekha gave you right guidance. from a women point of view.
    Hope you are wise enough to make decision.
    best of luck.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  5. chajyo
    Member

    i intentionally wanted to settled down with the family so spent 11 months bearing all the torture they gave but if initative will come from one side nothing will work out, and i feel depressed to see him blaming me for different reasons and supportign his mother. and if my family had bad intention to him he could have easily been trapped under legal terms. my undersating says til date this marriage was only to take the money and they had lot of expectations from me and my family in terms of money, my mother in law said every family says no to dowry and we also said like that only. i had given them money for 11 months then they will ask for Bank Statement ontop of it i'll asked for salary slip to match the record and then Q&A round why deductions in the slip and what is need of the same. after doing all this another Q&A round for my expenditure.

    it's easier siad then done when u actually go through all this.

    i have a strong feeling today it was planned initiative from their side just to take money as they never accepted named cheque but i was forced to give a self cheque.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  6. humanbeing2
    Member

    is your husband working and contributing towards family income? is his salary not sufficiant to meet family expenditure? is your sister in law working is the same treatment to her also?

    Posted 6 years ago #
  7. humanbeing2
    Member

    it is clear that they have not made any dowry demand.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  8. humanbeing2
    Member

    immediately contact mediation centre(CAW) attached to police station. they will send him notice. and also contact NGO who works for womans welfare to provide you legal help.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  9. chajyo
    Member

    his income is not sufficient today only we got to know when we added elderly people and they had a check/inquiry on his income, we got to know he is in losses and under burden. before marriage he used to show off different cars whenever coming to see me will come in a new car, my sister in law always treated me in a bad manner, her innocent kids even told me that all the family members were talkign bad things about me.

    they didn't ask anythign before marriage but after marriage said what your father have given to us and you are workign for long time where is that money gone.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  10. humanbeing2
    Member

    DV act will help u and your husband/MIL will have to spend that money for defending themselves.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  11. chajyo
    Member

    can u suggest mediation centre(CAW) or NGO in Delhi/NCR

    Posted 6 years ago #
  12. humanbeing2
    Member

    Human Rights Law Network, NCW... there are many.. search the net you will find

    Posted 6 years ago #

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