I Got married on 30 Oct 2008 and stayed with my husband and family till 29the Sep 2009, and after that staying with my parents till date. From day one my mother in law and sister in law have given me mental torture for my salary and have taken all the money in cash or self cheque. My husband never asked the money directly but indirectly have always pushed me to give her the money. Initially I thought I should do the adjustments and with time probably things will settle down but didn’t happen. Oct 2009 it was my real sister’s marriage but no one from the family turned up for marriage and while coming to my parents place they didn’t give me any Jewellary or money for the occasion but I had Rs.198 in the Bank account. We tried to sort all the things directly by going there and understanding the real issue but all in vain as my mother in law said all my policies should be in my husband’s name and my father should write on a blank paper if any thing goes wrong with the girl they are only responsible the same but not in laws family. Till date we haven’t taken any legal action against the family but through Bahawalpur Society tried convincing my husband if I with husband can live in a separate house but they didn’t agree for the same. Bahawalpur Society have had the discussion with two of the parties separately and together as well but my in laws didn’t agree for any thing. All my clothes, gifts and gold given to them by my family is till date with them only.
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