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Constent tension

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  • Started 6 years ago by myproblem
  • Latest reply from Dr.Dsouza
  1. sk_jha95
    Member

    Dr. Dsouza,
    u have rightly pointed out mu mistake. Initially I was afraid of cases, so i thought best way is to buy peace. that was my fault. She wrote a complaint letter in my office also and there was pressure on me from office also to resolve this issue at the earlierst. so i committed mistake. she is not ready to return nor ready to give divorce till her demand of 40 lakh r met. 4 cases still running on me. main pt. is what maximum damage she can do, I may go to jail and lose job thats all. if i ve capoabilities i will get another job.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  2. Dr.Dsouza
    Member

    Unless you face, you never overcome that fear.
    lear to fight back when you are right. there are ways to counter her all demands. dont giveup wihtout a fight, and later regret you should have fouhgt it out. our laws are biased, still dont giveup so easily. let her fight for long and she no way entitled to get the money as she demanded.
    best of luck we are with you there are judgments related to maintenance and other laws here http://mynation.net/docs/sitemap/ use it wisely. you may win like many of our other members.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  3. rekha_s
    Member

    Dsouza,
    What is your advice for women who has left her job after marriage as per wishes of their in laws. Later subjected to cruelty and harassment. Also has children. What should they to do?
    Suppose if your mother, sister or daughter is having such problem. What would you advice?

    Posted 6 years ago #
  4. rekha_s
    Member

    myproblem,

    After so many posts you may have understood pros and cons in case if the cases are filed.
    What have you decided?

    Posted 6 years ago #
  5. Dr.Dsouza
    Member

    If any women is harassed or subjected to cruelty and if she has such proofs then there is law to protect her interest. leaving job is upto her. husband or his family should not force her, it should be with mutual understanding. if she was working at her mothers place and after marriage she has to move to husband place, so she cannt demand that she want to work at same place. and that should decided before marriage itself.

    if she has children, custody should not given to her, just becuase she is mother/women or should not given to her coz in the name of child she will bargain for money from husband. as per some judgements working or capable to work women will not get maintenance, so she has to prove finding new job and capable to raise child better than her husband. and whoever get the custody should demand other parent to visit child every week and spend at least 2 hours valuable time with the child. and any parent who fill child ears against other parent should bared from meeting or visiting child or should visit under supervision.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  6. rekha_s
    Member

    what if in a situation she has to leave the house unable to bear further or husband has abandoned her and child, will she be able to get a same type of job she was doing being away from work force for so many years. and if she takes up some job to sustain life and basic necessities and needs some support from the father for raising the child and to provide good education? in that circumstances what she should do?

    what will you advice to a woman who instead of giving up (suicide) has will to live and also raise the child with respect and dignity? what should she do?

    Posted 6 years ago #
  7. Dr.Dsouza
    Member

    if she prove she was really harassed then there is legal remedy.
    no need to committe suicide just to blackmail. indian women has more support from govt and everyone [ ref : http://mynation.net/gender-equality.htm ] so she should not beg from husband.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  8. rekha_s
    Member

    - so I am using this legal remedy for justice with all the proof. and unfortunately the accused is father of the child so what is to be done?. should i still get him punished? or leave him.? or just tolerate

    actually giving up (suicide) and blackmailing (intimating about the action) is the same?

    that support what the indian government & everyone is giving to such woman is also called child support and maintenance. why not she claim it legally instead of begging???

    Posted 6 years ago #
  9. Dr.Dsouza
    Member

    Law is Blind, it should treat all equal. if you are true you will get justice, else also in india women get money and maitenance if they shed crocodile tears even they are wrong.
    Indian women want to grab govt money as well as husband money but real justice they face from their children whom they abducted from thier father. no doubt.

    PS : just now Admin informed me, YOU ARE BLOCKED, coz you are creating new continued thread which is closed. and its is discussed other than actual thread.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  10. humanbeing2
    Member

    why did admin not informed rekha before blocking? and why he prefered informing you?

    Posted 6 years ago #
  11. Dr.Dsouza
    Member

    coz i asked to track her id and admin foundout there are 2 ids with same IP. you know better Rekha/humanbeing...!
    this forum is not to SPAM, if you have issue or a query you can ask. if you can answer someone query, answer wisely, coz this Forum treat both gender equaly.
    we are not here to fight, i learnt so many things from here, and from members.
    Share your knowledge.if you can.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  12. Ashish Agarwal
    Member

    Dear Rekha

    I got a query posted in lawyersclubindia.com

    http://www.lawyersclubindia.com/forum/Family-34312.asp

    Are the same rekha or this is some other rekhha sharma

    Posted 6 years ago #

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