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Constent tension

(87 posts)
  • Started 6 years ago by myproblem
  • Latest reply from Dr.Dsouza
  1. sc432114
    Member

    you never seem convincing, doll rekha, cut the crap.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  2. hiarungupta
    Member

    rekhaji, one simple question, pl answer. Do u want to have a family life i.e. Do u want to marry?
    Please answer.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  3. Dr.Dsouza
    Member

    yea why not.
    but she still did`t found rich stud whom she can make dance to her tune and pay all her bills.
    still she will say here. "she dont want to marry again"

    Posted 6 years ago #
  4. rekha_s
    Member

    NO- i will not marry ever.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  5. rekha_s
    Member

    I am not legally divorced and even after separation I will not.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  6. atamjeetbhatia
    Member

    Rekha ji, I am very sorry to say that women like you are acting as catalyst to this chain reaction. Instead of spreading good thoughts, you are motivating women to file false 498a. To start a new relation, one has to won the heart of people around her and have to make a place in home. But girls now-adays have least patience and want to **** the place with hook are crook. Rekha ji , i have read your other posts and feel very sorry to have you in our group. You are helping womens to mis-judge their duties.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  7. rekha_s
    Member

    Dr. Dsouza,

    that is my personal choice for giving unshared love to our child. I am trying to be both father and mother to the child in his absence.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  8. Dr.Dsouza
    Member

    Rekha you only told in other threat "to all members" not to take mothers share in childs life.
    but now here you say " I am trying to be both father and mother"
    so dont preach others unless you practice same.
    why dont you give chnace to father of child handle his role....?
    i know feminists mentality.
    they want what is others along with their things too.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  9. rekha_s
    Member

    let the 498a situation not arise and couple live in harmony with love and respect for each other. resolve issues through meaningful discussion. and abide by what you commit instead of filing cases against each other. and let the child have both father and mother with him/her- is what I have been trying to say

    does that motivating woman to file 498a.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  10. rekha_s
    Member

    child has to have schooling at one place. child cannot change locations as and when he wants . when couple separated live in different location. a child lives with one parent who has the physical custody. and father can have visitation rights and can only visit once or twice in a month. as father wants to marry and move on his he does not want physical custody. I have dual responsibility to for work( for maintenance, manage house, take up studies etc.. now that father is not around I take him to play, hair cut ... as his father used to do.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  11. rekha_s
    Member

    Rekha you only told in other threat "to all members" not to take mothers share in childs life.
    -
    did i say to take away fathers share. I have always maintained the child should have both father and mother. if you could not fill the gap of father whatever be the reason. do not ever take away mother space.
    let the child have atleast one parent if not two with him for his emotional well being.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  12. ykgiroh
    Member

    please rekha ji, you are just satisfying by giving a reasoning to urself. Giving reasons doesn't solve the questions or situations. If you would have been that understanding the situation of your seperation would have never airsen. Even my wife says the same things as just now what u have said. When u can't fathom reasons for something what is happening then u try and blame ur counterpart for everything. Even i am compelled to answer here coz of such illogical reasons. Please try and stop giving reasons or should i say stop justifying. Be constructive and solve problems rather than blaming others.
    My Final Question... Does filing 498A solves the problems... ??
    Does it bring anything good to ur child???
    No..........it just satisfies ur ego of hurting others and blaming others....

    Posted 6 years ago #

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