I am a software engineer working with MNC at Hyderabad, Our marriage is held on Anantapur District, AP on 25Th November 2007, Marriage is arranged by My Brothers, My wife’s Father also from same village and he is my Brothers Child Hood Friend, Due to that friendship my brother agreed to marry Her Daughter. My wife is done MBA from Osmania University and also i have done MCA. So i have married her with my interest also. After Getting marriage, Immediately we have taken rented house at nearby my Office, after that my wife and her father denied my brothers and sisters to come to my house and restricted me to go to their houses, from child hood onwards my brothers and sisters spent all expenses for My studies, Because ours is very poor family even my brothers and sisters also very poor, so they have spent lot of money towards My studies, After Marriage My wife and Her father totally restricted me to speak with them and demanded me to purchase a house in Hyderabad Because i am software engineer and earning good salary, so they suspecting me that i am spending my salary to my brothers and sisters even though i am not giving one penny to them. And she is started harassing me for Luxurious life style, I have adjusted all these things and also after some days i have purchased One Flat in Hyderabad at the time of flat purchase my economical status is not that much good because of her satisfaction i have purchased Flat , In that flat cost i have obtained 90% of the Cost from Bank Loan and remaining amount I have paid by cash(All These money my Hard Earned). And with love and affection towards my wife i have registered this property Jointly (Joint Registration). From the date of purchasing Flat i am paying all the Home Loan EMI’s(24000/- Per Month for 20 Years) alone from My salary, Now also i have Not done savings even one rupee. In the Month Of January 2010 i have brought my Mother to My house(She is Paralysis Patient and totally Bed ridden) I have done all service to My mother, I have not asked her to do the service to My mother even thought she is started harassing me and My mother to through my mother out from the house, because while she urine the house is getting smell and house floor is spoiling, Every day she is became night mare to me. And one day i have approached my Father In law saying all these thing And asked him to provide any family counselling to us, But one day he had come with some of his friends and argued with me saying My daughter is well educated and married you to for Luxuries stay not doing service and also suggested me to Join my mother into Old age Home. After Some days she(My wife) called their parents and relatives and they have argued with me and Beaten to me and Taken all her belongings (Including 15 Tulas Gold, Her Certificates, My Vehicle RC and Driving Licence Original) and went there house and given complaint to police station on False Dowry Harassment on July 4th 2010. From that day police started harassing me and My Family Members. So have approached APHRC explaining the police harassment and also i have applied for Anticipatory bail for unregistered crime. And also i have applied for Divorce on 22nd Dec 2010. My bail order is valid upto 15 days after registering the FIR. After that i need to apply fresh Application for bail. But My wife and their parents Intelligently approached to another police station and court and filed Case (FIR) on me and My family members on 3rd feb 2011and Police has Not given any information to me or My family members on FIR. Luckily i came to know FIR has registered and it is already 13 days crossed. Now i have applied For New Bail. So please help me to Clarify My Below Doubts.
1. Is This FIR can be taken as ground for My divorce.
2. Shall i proceed any counter case on them because they have tried to Black mail me and Filed Totally False case on me.
3. And also they have stolen some cheques from my bag which are signed by me and blackmailing on this also, So shall i take any action on this issue.
4. I have registered My house jointly, But EMIs are paying alone, If stop paying EMIs it will becomes Problems to My credit Rating. If i continue to paying EMI. Will she is also having right. How to get out from this issue, because i have suffered lot to pay the EMIs and it is very very hard earned Property this is the only Asset i am having.
Please help me to solve these problems. And also i mention here her father is a railway corrupted employee and having lot Money and Political background. Our Family is very poor and All my Family members are scaring on this issue, So please help me and my family to come out from all these issues.