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Legal Advice about Property

(38 posts)
  • Started 6 years ago by cutekoti
  • Latest reply from cutekoti
  1. rekha_s
    Member

    will you be peaceful with out her and kids. if you do not trust each other...you cannot live together.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  2. sgrover1973
    Member

    Rekha ji

    But if that happens, Rekha ji! are you ready to take the responsibility.

    I am very sure if she has said it then she meant it.

    Killing is not easy, but for maniac nothing is impossible. I myself had found 10-15 sharp edged shaving blades lying naked on a tripod next to my pillow once I got up inthe morning. That incident still bring shivers in my spine.

    Rekha ji! you cannot compare the your mental stability with the one who has lost it, whatever be the reason. Now all the bonding forces are missing like trust, love, humour, companionship and most important bond i.e. child who has not born yet.

    I would suggest it is better to part ways. Because the suspicion will haunt them for ever.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  3. rekha_s
    Member

    he has kids.. that is a important right

    Posted 6 years ago #
  4. cutekoti
    Member

    I am ready to stay with her if she can give me assurance. I do need my kids. I dont bother about her even if she is not living with me. But the end of day, I need peaceful life with kids but not like Mafia by wife. To be honest, if we both have trust, then I might not need to worry about this.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  5. dearverma
    Member

    rekha ji posting from some of ur previous advice

    "life without dignity and self respect is meaningless. tolerating injustice is more grave crime than doing injustice."

    now what u are educating cutekoti to bend banckwards and be humiliated by just not wife but her entire family because he has a child.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  6. dearverma
    Member

    rekha ji, sorry was just going thru various threads where u were spitting venom on entire male community.

    u wrote
    "you mean to say bear all the atrocities because you are now mother?? why can't the father be in the limits fearing the consequences it will have to his loved one."

    now i assume this is also only for females. males have no option or rather just one option of bending on kneels.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  7. rekha_s
    Member

    cutekoti,

    look out for solution... trust is built on actions and should be initiated with intention of saving a family from distruction. when you are angry you will always think negative. what is wrong if you take the first step instead of waiting for her to come forward. you talk to her about your apprehensions too.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  8. rekha_s
    Member

    take some elders help for making her/her relatives understand.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  9. cutekoti
    Member

    How many times I need to do that? This is my 100th time, I have bend my knees for her. How do I expect her relatives should support me? Definitely, everybody is behind money instead of relations.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  10. rekha_s
    Member

    if this is a situation. you file for divorce and child visitation rights. you will have to give maintenance to your wife and kids. did you file for RCR ? take a final stand move on in life.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  11. cutekoti
    Member

    What is the maximum maintainance amount if I am an NRI?

    Posted 6 years ago #
  12. cutekoti
    Member

    What would be scenario if she denied to give divorce to trouble me?She can say that she will come and join with me to demand for more money. What should I do in this situation?

    Posted 6 years ago #

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