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  1. Dr.Dsouza
    Member

    why its wrong to tell what she has done to me and him...?
    i will not lies about her but tell the truth, that she STOPed breast feed when he was just 2 months old, just because,she cared more about her beauty than child and he will decide who is wrong and right.
    they stop him from going to me coz he will find out the truth about me and slam back to them for telling lies about me and keeping him in Dark.
    Now final judgement is in his hand. coz we getting older and time is in his hand.
    and same fate for all women who keep their child away from their father.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  2. rekha_s
    Member

    let him have respect for both. don't try to create any hatred in him. they may have done wrong. why you want to make same mistake. think what will happen to the child. it will hurt him emotionally. why do you want to do that. instead try to be a good father. you have moved on in your life. let him have a mother atleast by his side as she chose to be single for him. why do you want him to make any judgement. let him be happy. he can understand if she is cruel towards him. do you think if you tell all bad about mother in one fine day he will change his attitude and start loving you.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  3. rekha_s
    Member

    she will also have more convincing explanation against all bad things told by you.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  4. sc432114
    Member

    you never seem convincing, doll rekha, cut the crap.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  5. Dr.Dsouza
    Member

    Feminists always try to prove they are right always. and Rekha is best example for that.
    i will tell truth and truth only. so far i didt told him anything about her. later he should not tell me why didt i told this before.
    he is grownup now,he can decide what is right and what is wrong. i will not tell anything behind her back. i can tell infront of her. coz its truth and its very hard to digest.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  6. rekha_s
    Member

    fighting in front of the child is very much wrong ask any child psychologist. and abusing each other in his presence will have more adverse effect on him. you very much love your child and you will always do what will be good for him. take advice from the child psychologist if it is right. I as a child did not even like one parent even talking loudly to other parent. I will condemn if any female would also do that.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  7. Dr.Dsouza
    Member

    Who is more talketive and vomit venom agianst other?
    im sure its not men.
    there is court directive too, not to fil child ears with bad things about child Father. and i know what most divorced women do.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  8. rekha_s
    Member

    is there a court directive to tell the child about the bad things of mother(even if it is truth).

    will the child come close to you by telling that father is good and mom is bad after so many years and no communication. what if you secure his life and he refuse to take. even if nothing is filled in his ears he will think his father is irresponsible and has ruined his mom's life. that is normal for any child in this situation

    act immediately. try to communicate and tell your feeling towards him without hampering his mothers image in his mind. where ever you are he should have that feeling that father is with him.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  9. hiarungupta
    Member

    rakhaji, one simple question. Do u want to marry now?

    Posted 6 years ago #
  10. sgrover1973
    Member

    Hi Arun

    Is it a question or a........................... proposal.

    Just kidding!

    Posted 6 years ago #
  11. Dr.Dsouza
    Member

    telling truth or happend need no court directive and is not even comes under defamation.
    but hidding truth about child mother is crime/SIN/injustice as per me coz child has right to know what had happend. keeping him in drak violation of childs rights.

    coz if father dont tell about his mother (BAD or good things) if he learn it from others then he may start to hate father, so it is better to tell him when time comes, let him decide who is right.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  12. Dr.Dsouza
    Member

    Arun already in once with 498a, im sure he dont want go in second time for sure. so its not a proposal.

    Posted 6 years ago #

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