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  1. Dr.Dsouza
    Member

    smi;
    Dont forget to read this. http://supari.org/woman-eloped/ [ Udupi : Married Woman Eloped, Goes Missing…]
    more you will find on http://supari.org

    Posted 6 years ago #
  2. smi
    Member

    Doc,

    not able to open the sites because its blocked in the office. Will check it later.

    If you feel that person who harasses his wife should be punished, why are you suppressing the women who comes with the problems here. I have seen you answering almost all the quarries. When a women approaches you are giving very rude and biased answers.

    Regarding my maids story- You mean to say then Men can go to other women if they don’t find their wife interesting. And same time women should not ?

    Posted 6 years ago #
  3. Dr.Dsouza
    Member

    smi, yes i answer these queries because im doing this almost as many years of half of your age, assuming you are just around 28 years old. i can guess that from your questions.

    Do you know we have women members on our group. ?
    if im or any member of this forum biased towards women then we would have blocked or deleted all of your questions, as i have moderator rights here.

    women get biased answer only when she try to "reap where she do not sow"

    yes owmen has right to go when she finished with her husband without claiming anything from him, as man leave her without asking her to maintain him. when she donot want him why women claim money from him ?
    im biased coz almost all indian judges force man to pay even his wife run away with her lover. thats why im fighting. and nothing against any women.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  4. smi
    Member

    Dr Dsouza,
    I 'm not much aware of law regarding maintenance. but I feel if the man approaches the court with proper evidence that she left him because of she had extra marital affair, I think judge will definitely favor him.

    Dear CRkannan,
    I feel sorry for your mother. I have a question for you hear. When your grand mother was torturing your mother, what was your father doing?
    Kannan if I was in your mothers position I would not have bared it. I would have done something by which she stops torturing. Same time not to the extent of giving police complaint.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  5. crkannan
    Member

    My father became 80% blind when I was 5 years old. My mother used to cry or avoid my grand mother. I was very young. My grand mother lived for most part in another city

    Posted 6 years ago #
  6. Dr.Dsouza
    Member

    Smitha; I know you are a social worker. and may be met some sobing women whos husband left them. but we have thousands of judgments where husbands are forced to pay even illegitimate children.women who are in extra marital affairs, who run away with lovers but occupy and bring restrain order from court to stop husband entering from his own house. such list is unlimited.
    and you have to be in our **** to know how Indian Legal system treat us, whatever proofs man shows are not valid when women just cry in front of judge. coz they are very good in acting.
    our members sisters, young children, brest fed children along with their mother are jailed under 498a with one word of women.
    you know all this if you have a brother and his wife file 498A on you.
    We have women in our group who fight for their brothers, if we were biased towards all women we would have treated them as Prostitute; but we count them as our Sisters.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  7. smi
    Member

    Doc,
    by profession I’m not a social worker. I never consider myself as social worker. I’m from the Management Background. But I do give back to society voluntarily being an active member of Corporate Social responsibility of my company and also part of couple of other NGOs who mainly work with children. During weekends if I’m free I visit the Govt school next to my home and take session for high school children on Personality Development and career guidance. I have helped NGO to develop educational modules.
    I have never met anyone who is victim of Dowry harassment or victim of 498a. Until I read this site, I was not aware of for seriousness of it. I used to read abt it only in news paper but never considered it so important as my interests are different.
    I came across this site when I was searching for few information on Child rights. And landed in one of the query raised on child custody.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  8. Dr.Dsouza
    Member

    Mahindra satyam.
    How about women who deny to enter Fathers name is childs birth cirtificate.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  9. kshah
    Member

    If men ask dowry, why women pays??? They have option not to get married. Women may have poor status in India but that is not amongst educated or urban class of people. It is there in rural and non educated class. Any educated woman tolerating smallest of husband's cruelty even for a day is stupidity. That woman should be punished first then men should be punished.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  10. smi
    Member

    Doc
    I’m very surprised!!! Looks like you have done some research on me..

    Posted 6 years ago #
  11. Dr.Dsouza
    Member

    NO. i have sixth sense.
    You said you are my nieghbor. and it is better to know who my nieghbors are.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  12. smi
    Member

    Doc,
    My sixth sense says that, being an admin of this site you have access to check complete name of the members and with that you searched me in FB and orkut.

    Am my correct??? :)

    Posted 6 years ago #

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