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  1. rekha_s
    Member

    Dear Mr. Arun,

    what is that I " need to understand lots of things.". you can advice me. may be i have not thought about it...

    Posted 6 years ago #
  2. Dr.Dsouza
    Member

    She knows what im writting and read all my posts. actually she is against feminists.
    she knows her responsibilities too.
    sooner or later we will be blessed with child, that not mean i will leave my son. as of now i have Visitation order from HC and also went to meet him,next time i will get him home in summer holidays.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  3. rekha_s
    Member

    that is good development.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  4. Dr.Dsouza
    Member

    so what happend to your LAW OF THE LAND...? reKHA
    i should not have got visitation and custody.
    as per you and law of the land only women get custody....

    Posted 6 years ago #
  5. rekha_s
    Member

    child cannot be divided. I am very much with the law of the land which says one who can take best care of the child should be given physical custody and one who does not get should be giving visitation rights. but the child who is less than 5 years should be with mother . for a child who is above 5 years it is debatable who can take best care. it would be good if third person evaluates. such as child welfare organisation or NGO who are unbaised. wishes of the child should be also be taken into consideration.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  6. rekha_s
    Member

    one question: why do you prefer to have your solutation as Dr when you are not doctor. are u a honest person Mr. D'souza. were u really good to your wife. why did she leave you?. were you giving child support timely to your child if you really cared for him. never faced contempt of court charges?

    how would you look after the child who was 2 years without any job. even if he was given to you your mother/or your relatives would have taken care of him in your absence. and if you got easy divorce and remarried, step mother will take care.

    if you assume that his grand parents are not taking care of him. can you guarantee that step mother will take care with same affection as biological mother. what if your second wife also leaves you if you think "kuthe ke poonch thedi ke thedi he rehti hai... attitude towards any women.

    breastfeeding is not the only criteria to judge love of a mother towards her child.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  7. rekha_s
    Member

    as the child grows up no matter how much you try to influence he can easily understand his surrounding. there can be differences/conflicts between the spouses. they should give their share of love without taking other partners share. child is all together different individual and will have his own thinking.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  8. Dr.Dsouza
    Member

    Law should be same for all, as per your Law of Land (LOL) only mother should get child below 5 years right ?
    i can show many recent judgments even father got girl child custody? so its not law of land which change colours. i can call it law of ladies, who think only mother is capable raise child better.

    i think u know only injection giving doctor.
    child will not have your breastfeed when its 20 year old, it need it when its below 5 only,if a women is not ready to give that what is the use whatever money she earn. breastfeed is Child right, and todays women violate it. coz child is not complaining. we men have to demand childs rights,and fight for it, and charge all women for violating it. Rekha i know you are one too.

    i will give u examples of 2 families.

    one family raise thier children with god fear/good education/non smoker/non alcholic and later settle in left verywell with reputation
    Other family totaly reverse of above.
    now whom will you leave your child, thinking he will be raised in morals ?

    Posted 6 years ago #
  9. Dr.Dsouza
    Member

    kutthe ka poonch seeda **** saktha hai, lekin feminists nahin.
    what else define mothers love...?

    Posted 6 years ago #
  10. rekha_s
    Member

    Law should be same for all, as per your Law of Land (LOL) only mother should get child below 5 years right ?
    - can you give birth to a child alone?were you born without mother & father?who raised you?father or mother or both?

    i can show many recent judgments even father got girl child custody? so its not law of land which change colours. i can call it law of ladies, who think only mother is capable raise child better.

    -if father has prooved he can take better care of the child than mother so it is as per the law.

    (i think u know only injection giving doctor.-)
    -but you are also not a PHD doctor but you u still use Dr. is it not wrong?

    (child will not have your breastfeed when its 20 year old, it need it when its below 5 only,if a women is not ready to give that what is the use whatever money she earn. breastfeed is Child right, and todays women violate it. coz child is not complaining. we men have to demand childs rights,and fight for it, and charge all women for violating it. Rekha i know you are one too.)

    more than breast milk the child has right to be NOURISHED. breast milk is recommended/adviced for first 6 months for proper nourishment. woman are very much aware of breastfeeding how it helps on sheding unwanted weight gained during pregnancy. there are many woman who have to resume work after 3 months of maternity leave(with consent of their of husband) they can not breastfeed the child. some even store the milk in refrigirator to be fed after they leave for job. child with teeth bites the mother and it is so painful but they still feed the child.
    -has he not been given vaccinations on time. is he going to school and provided basic necessities of life food clothing & shelter. ARE YOU GIVING CHILD SUPPORT FOR THESE MANY YEARS?what is your responsibility towards him. have you checked his acadamic performance from the school?
    how can man with such thinking be called doctor????????

    (i will give u examples of 2 families.

    one family raise thier children with god fear/good education/non smoker/non alcholic and later settle in left verywell with reputation
    Other family totaly reverse of above.
    now whom will you leave your child, thinking he will be raised in morals ?)

    --are you sure you are not in the catagory-
    "one family raise thier children with god fear/good education/non smoker/non alcholic and later settle in left verywell with reputation"

    -can you proove if your wife/relatives cannot raise the child with the above principles.family values/morals.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  11. rekha_s
    Member

    you have married and moved on. but your ex has still not married that it self shows that she loves the child and may be she is struggling so much being away from child to give good education and life to child single handedly(without your support). may be she will come back to india after few years after securing her life and child. is the child not being sent to school??
    woman who can keep the child safely in her womb for 9 months will never want to distroy him willingly after he is born unless she mentally not sound.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  12. rekha_s
    Member

    Rekha i know you are one too.

    what makes u think without even knowing me.
    so that itself shows you may b saying n number of bad things about your ex with out any base.

    Posted 6 years ago #

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