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  1. Dr.Dsouza
    Member

    Posted 6 years ago #
  2. rekha_s
    Member

    how is this father managing 6 months toddler without working? who does the household chores?any of his relatives are with him to take care of the baby?. there are mothers who die during child birth. their childrens are raised by relatives of father who are there with him for support. rarest of rare cases that mother abondons the child. you cannot prove anything by one still photo of man feeding a baby.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  3. Dr.Dsouza
    Member

    this is to show, men also take care of the child, when women is there or not. or if she dies.
    some women just boast only women can take care of child.
    Man in the photo work in the office and after coming home take care of the child too.
    but no one count man struggle reaching office and home travelling by train/bus standing 2 hours daily.
    working 8 hours without any rest when women sleep at home in the afternoon or when child sleep
    and when man comes home.
    "ye lle thera bachcha, sambal" and watch TV serials on Zee/Sony.

    this is the story of most men of India.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  4. rekha_s
    Member

    this is not the story of most of the men of india for sure. do not go extremes.

    you talk about women who are homemakes/housewife. what about working woman??

    "but no one count WOman's struggle reaching office and home travelling by train/bus standing 2 hours daily.
    working 8 hours without any rest when MAN DO NOT DO ANY THING BUT ONLY WATCH SPORT/NEWS AT HOME IN THE EVENING"

    In fact this is the story of most of the women. see you will find hundreds of such woman in your neighbourhood itself.

    Raising a child, managing home, cooking is not a easy task with out help. and for many of the man it is thankless job. no woman (including wife/mother/sister/daughter)will like to live with a man who does not respect woman(wife/mother/sister/daughter) leave aside love. Because of this attitude, many man land up in problems and distroy their family.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  5. sk_jha95
    Member

    Rekha_S,
    I have written 6 years not 6 months. Pl. read properly before replying

    Posted 6 years ago #
  6. rekha_s
    Member

    Ok fine. how is this father managing 6 years baby without working? who does the household chores?any of his relatives are with him to take care of the baby? how long the child is with the mother & father??.there are mothers who die during child birth. their childrens are raised by relatives of father who are there with him for support. RAREST OF RARE cases that mother abondons the LIGITIMATE child. you cannot prove anything by one still photo of man feeding a baby. even grandfather/brother can feed the baby so.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  7. Dr.Dsouza
    Member

    Working women...
    ask their husband how many such women spend all their salary for house. like men.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  8. rekha_s
    Member

    why should husband and wife not have economic freedom for how to spend their respective income as long as the need for household expenses/childs welfare/furture investments are taken care off.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  9. Dr.Dsouza
    Member

    dont tell me how difficult cooking work is.
    when i was bachelor. i used to cook and finished before 9AM.
    not just dal/rasam/sambar
    but one dal and vegitable dish or fish curry or chicken
    laundry was finished when i take bath itself
    and cleaning / mobing will take another 30 minutes

    in same house when my bitterhalf came, she used to tel it take one whole day, sometimes when i come home in the evening she was still running here and there.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  10. Dr.Dsouza
    Member

    yea they should have economic freedom, but people talk only when man dont give money to run home.
    no one tell anyhting if working women is not giving.
    if man ask her, thats cruelty on her right ?

    Posted 6 years ago #
  11. rekha_s
    Member

    work was divided according to conveniance in the olden days as needs were limited and various other reason. in modern times, with the increase of cost of living and need for good education it has become necessary for most of partners to contribute income. if both partners are working then both should share responsibility based on conveniance. but does this actually happens. problems happens when you have lot of expections from the other partner. why should you not accept the persons with all the limitations. if she cannot cook why don't you teach her cook with love or you cook for her. see the difference. no one is perfect. think positively.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  12. rekha_s
    Member

    ONLY cooking is not difficult. it is difficult to person who cannot cook. why cooking be a issue in marriage.

    Posted 6 years ago #

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