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case status-498a

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  1. rekha_s
    Member

    wows taken during the marriage ceremony defines duties and obligations of husband/wife.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  2. rekha_s
    Member

    1) What are the cases filed by you till today?
    - 498a,divorce, child custody, maintenance
    2)Who are the accussed in cases filed by you?
    - hubby, MIL and FIL
    3)What is the period of Separation ?
    - 3years
    4)What you have gained during the separation?
    - lost everything.
    5)How is your life pre 498a and post 498a ? Are you satisfied with your life after 498a?
    - was not happy either ways
    6)What are the reconciliation efforts done by you and your family?
    - marriage counsellors
    7)What was the reason of dispute between you and your hubby?
    -please go thru my earlier post
    8)Your child wants to be with whom :(a) Only Mom, (b) Only Dad, (c) Both mom and dad.
    - both
    9)Whom do you think the child should be with :(a) Only Mom, (b) Only Dad, (c) both mom and dad
    -both
    10)What is your qualification ? Were you working earlier and now?If yes then what is your earning?
    PG/No/yes- less than15K

    Posted 6 years ago #
  3. Dr.Dsouza
    Member

    Rekha;
    Women goes to Police or file 498A for any reason or without reason.
    some of our members wife filed when she was asked to make roties, in their own word.
    "Mai roti belnekeliye paida nahi hui"
    and my beloved wife said
    "Im not your Slave to cook for you" and she filed case.
    some women filed because thier husband found out their extra marital office Affair.
    Some wanted to kick her In Laws out of house.
    some filed they wanted control men
    some wanted to show what they can and they wanted to show their capacity and teach a lesson to husband.
    i duno why you filed.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  4. Dr.Dsouza
    Member

    How much Dowry You gave ?
    How much they demanded ?
    They demanded after marriage or at the time of marriage ?

    NCW says after 498A all women are happy, but you say, you were not happy before and after too

    Posted 6 years ago #
  5. Dr.Dsouza
    Member

    5)How is your life pre 498a and post 498a ? Are you satisfied with your life after 498a?
    - was not happy either ways

    so 498a is not the answer for any women problem .... then you proved NCW / WCD wrong.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  6. rekha_s
    Member

    do u think what husband has done is right. don't you condemn his action. this man who is educated and is in a very high position talks about family ethics and principles does not even think it is wrong and is cruel. tell me why should such person not be punished if found guilty

    Posted 6 years ago #
  7. Dr.Dsouza
    Member

    Law will punish if he is guilty.
    You duty is to show the proof of his crimes.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  8. rekha_s
    Member

    498a is prevention to most of the womens problem. abduction of infant itself is cruelity

    Posted 6 years ago #
  9. rekha_s
    Member

    childs proper upbringing and welfare is top priority. childs happiness is mothers happiness and same should apply to father. so husband should give his share of maintenance mend his ways or face the consiquence

    Posted 6 years ago #
  10. Dr.Dsouza
    Member

    You said you filed only "498a,divorce, child custody, maintenance"

    is this maintenance is for you or for child ? if its not for child then why you did not filed that too ?

    Posted 6 years ago #
  11. Dr.Dsouza
    Member

    You did not answered my dowry demand and gave question, that means there was no dowry but you filed case.
    Right ?

    Posted 6 years ago #
  12. rekha_s
    Member

    there was no dowry issue this shows the wife is honest.

    Posted 6 years ago #

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