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case status-498a

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  1. rekha_s
    Member

    this man is in a very good position in a MNC. so it should NOT be a problem for giving even 5k to 10k for childs expenses if he really want to give the child decent life.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  2. Dr.Dsouza
    Member

    abducts the infant with the passport. then wife files 498a.

    If father take its Abduction, same if Mother take it should be KIDNAPP right ?

    it seems rekha can twist her tongue any way as she likes, in same post she says "abducts the infant with the passport." but he is being given access...
    both dosnt make any sense.
    Child is with Mother but she has sob story he abducted the infant and now she want money Ransom in Child name.

    What a money making idea....

    Posted 6 years ago #
  3. Dr.Dsouza
    Member

    Why do you think he has to pay, You enjoy most of the infants childhood, if he has given half then he will pay half.
    I dont think child expensus will be more than 5000Rs per month. and half you have to pay.

    We dont give Advice in favor only. we are here for equality. thats why u say you are in wrong Forum.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  4. rekha_s
    Member

    infant is given back to her with the help of police. and wife gets status quo custody. child is below 5 years that time

    Posted 6 years ago #
  5. rekha_s
    Member

    He is not even paying half. is it right to indulge in such act which will distroy the family. should the wife tolerate all this. everyone wants to be free to do any things then what is different between us human being and animals. is it eithical. what is family values and principals then?

    Posted 6 years ago #
  6. rekha_s
    Member

    Can the wife prove all this. what will be the effect of this on child. will any of his relatives believe take wife side. will that girl tell the truth if she is given gifts/presents and monetory help. girls parents will not even come to know. if wife manage house/childrens and work ,tolerate all this nonsense and man only work there can never be gender equality. gender equality is equal sharing of responsibility.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  7. rekha_s
    Member

    abduction because he went missing with child for 4 days without intimating and gives back the child thru relative in police station and disappers.

    wife has taken child with permission of police and with status quo custody order. is this kidnapping?

    Posted 6 years ago #
  8. Dr.Dsouza
    Member

    You wrote "child is not a property first of all.for child development and upbringing both parents should live in harmony. he or she needs both parents. there will be normal wear and tear marriage. there should be compromise from both sides especially when there is a child"

    and again you say "infant is given back to her with the help of police. and wife gets status quo custody."

    At that time why dont you thought about your own passage "for child development and upbringing both parents should live in harmony....bla bla"

    Instead you should have asked the Police/Court before getting Child and kept with you, Even after 5 years of Age, that force Father to spend some quality time everyday with child instead keeping child only with you.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  9. Dr.Dsouza
    Member

    Yes, Keeping child only with mother is Violation of Child right, kidnapping, sabotage and Blackmailing too. because in India, Mother want child for her only so she can demand money in the name of Child support, they are not ashmed to take that money.

    Now child is with you, you tell everyone where is the child, may be Father never know, what you do with the child, you may be thinking everyone knows about it. same Father also thought those 4 days Everyone knows where the child is.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  10. rekha_s
    Member

    living in harmony in marriage means tolerating these nonsense and before wife could talk anything he deserted the wife. infant who is depending on the mother for his norishment and care. is it not cruel to **** him away.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  11. rekha_s
    Member

    is it not cruel to take him away.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  12. rekha_s
    Member

    responsibility of child is of both parents. if you ask the child he will say he wants both the parents with him like his friends in the neighbourhood and school. can the father answer his question. he wants the child custody so does not want him to be mother. does not care about the expenses. is he a good father first of all.

    Posted 6 years ago #

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