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case status-498a

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  1. Dr.Dsouza
    Member

    Even wife is working husband has to give her cloths/gold and other things if he dont give she will publish it everyone.
    her salry is not enough for her makeup /cloths and outings. if husband ask anyhthing it will be starting point of III world war.
    haha what a joke, she did`t learnt cooking for 25 years from her mother will any women learn it from husband.
    when this issue comes you very easily tell no one is perfect, but every women expect man to be perfect and pay her bills on TIME.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  2. kutiyakakhasam
    Member

    Ms Rekha, i've been following this thread of yours, your words are so profound. Give me your mobile no so that i can call u to make u aware of the reality.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  3. rekha_s
    Member

    Mr. kutikakhasam u can express in this thread what you want to say instead of calling me.

    girls or boys are raised equally nowadays not that they are born girl so they should cook. no matter how much she learns she has to adapt to the cooking style of matrimonial home where MIL, FIL and others also reside. tastes and preferences differ from individual to individual.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  4. Dr.Dsouza
    Member

    yea but my bitter half born 35 years back and still didt knew how to handle needle forget cooking. and there were no FIL/MIL in my house. nor i didt asked her cook like my mother
    you have to have WILL to learn, my mother did`t told me how to cook.
    dont tell me my case one in million, if one man can do this then there will be million men like this.
    i can handle needle to IBM super compter why not other women, that include you too Rekha.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  5. rekha_s
    Member

    cooking was my hobby. I learnt just by seeing and helping my mom cook and some times i learned by chance through books and internet. my mom never took cooking class for me to learn. I also used to experiment and first taste myself and give to my hubby if only it is tasty. although we had cooks but still i was not a good cook.
    so I am not a good wife???

    Posted 6 years ago #
  6. rekha_s
    Member

    everyone is not genius like Dr. Dsauza

    Posted 6 years ago #
  7. Dr.Dsouza
    Member

    ppl say "mans heart through his stomach"
    u rightly said Rekha " u r not a good wife" may be.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  8. Dr.Dsouza
    Member

    genius...!
    no its common sense;
    sense of good family.
    i can say, i learn because i wanted to catch her cooking and find faults haha

    Posted 6 years ago #
  9. rekha_s
    Member

    Today my son likes what ever i cook for him I am the best cook. why am i not the best cook for my hubby??

    Posted 6 years ago #
  10. rekha_s
    Member

    men can win woman's heart through stomach too. but when you are married you donnot only need not only heart but soul too.( wife and husband):-)

    Posted 6 years ago #
  11. rekha_s
    Member

    relations do not improve by critising or demoralising. learn to appreciate efforts.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  12. Dr.Dsouza
    Member

    son has no option, ask same question when he get marry, if he still says u r best cook, his life also like your husband, no doubt. you will know this only when you get a competitor a BAHU.
    you mean to say man has to cook for his wife after coming back from work and she just lay around and watch TV ?

    Posted 6 years ago #

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