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Wife absuing and accusing husband of Sex Torture.

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  1. VRC
    Member

    Iam a 36 year old male from India. I am married to a Doctor as per the Hindu Marriages Act and we are in Dubai. We have been having fights from the first year of mariage. My wife would fight with me for talking to my mother, sister or other relatives. She would not allow me to spend my money where i want to spend and would not allow me to give money to my mother. She does not want to come to india even for holiday saying that she would not be treated well by my mother and sister in india. Where as this is not true. She has said to my sister who adiced to cooperate on firstnight that whe would see my character and then only have sex with me. She litrally wants me to come off from my family and shouts and abuses me and my family in front of others. Due to this i have lost interest in having sex with her. We have called their parents to come and dicuss the issue to which they refused. They also threaten us that they would bring MP,MLA and Police commissioner to discuss and deal the matter. My wife and FIL threaten me that they would come to my office and complain and they would complain to police that Iam Sex torturing her. I have not hit her and have not abused her or her family members. She is keen on working more than having a baby. She has PCOD and has suspected me to have erectile dysfunction. I have ocoperated for every medication but still she has called me Impotent in front of all her friends. Now i would like to end this but do not know ehat to do. Please advice whether she can take action under the WPC act. Would be greatful if i can be adviced about my future actions. Also i would like to know whether there are any Lawers who we can approach in Coiambatore.

    Posted 7 years ago #
  2. Dr.Dsouza
    Member

    As long as she is not doing anything or Approching Authorities you cant do much than just collect all supporting details of her harassment which may support you in future.

    it is better make a Record for all her deeds and threats if possible, once you get enough you can approch our Madras members they will guide you if any Coimbator member or helpline is available.

    Posted 7 years ago #
  3. VRC
    Member

    Dear Dr.Dsouza,

    Thanks for your reply. I would like to know the mode in which i need to record these evidences (Audio / Vedio) conversations. Is there any other option available for me like filing for divorce? i would like to know in such cases her options. Please advice.

    Posted 7 years ago #
  4. Dr.Dsouza
    Member

    You can record it in mobile or any voice recording device,but keep it in original source, do not copy into CD or tape. so anyone can varify its her/their voice.
    meanwhile if you are talking term to each other try to talk about Dowry and beating as you can say you never took dowry or beat her and she is falsly claiming bla bla, so you can prove her worng in court.

    You can go for Divorce if you have valid resons, read more about Divorce here http://mynation.net/divorce.htm

    Posted 7 years ago #

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