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BEST ALTERNATIVE?

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  • Started 6 years ago by fb4raj
  • Latest reply from Adv.Kachave
  • poll: TO DIVORCE HER OR NOT?
    DIVORCE. : (0 votes)
    WAIT N WATCH. : (1 votes)
    100 %
    FILE AN NC AGAINST HER WITH POLICE 4 SAFETY. : (0 votes)
    GET HER 2 FILE A CASE OF TORTURE B4 MARRIAGE ON HER PARENTS. : (0 votes)
  1. fb4raj
    Member

    I (STAYING IN THANE) & MY WIFE (LONE DAUGHTER STAYING IN DEHRADUN) MET THROUGH A BHARAT MATRIMONY WEBSITE & WERE IN TOUCH, MOSTLY OVER THE PHONE FOR 6 MONTHS B4 MARRIAGE.
    WE WERE MARRIED WITH THE CONSENT OF ALL RELATIVES ON BOTH SIDES ON NOV 27TH ’09 IN KOLKATA & SINCE THEN HAS STARTED STAYING 2GETHER WITH ME & MY PARENTS IN THANE.
    HER MOM IS HABITUATED TO DEALING WITH THE POLICE & COURTS AND CONSTANTLY CONSULTS LAWERS EVEN THOUGH HER FAMILY INCOME IS AROUND 8,000/- INR. NONE OF OUR FAMILY MEMBERS HAVE ANY POLICE RECORD UPTIL NOW, THOUGH HER DAD WAS ARRESTED ONCE.
    AFTER MARRIAGE, WE DISCOVERED THAT WE WERE FOOLED – SHE FAILED IN T.Y.Ba, DOES NOT KNOW THE BASICS OF COOKING, IS INCAPABLE OF DOING SIMPLE 2ND STANDARD ADDN-SUBTRACTION, WAS NOT A VIRGIN (I WAS), BACK-ANSWERS WHEN WE TRY 2 TEACH, ETC…. AFTER LIEING B4 MARRIAGE. WE HAVE NOT YET REGISTERED OUR MARRIAGE.
    WE HAD SUPPORTED HER B4 MARRIAGE WHEN SHE WAS HARASSED BY HER MOM (WHO IS DOMINANT, VENGEFUL & HAS A CONTROLLING NATURE) 4 BEING A GIRL CHILD, AFTER WHICH HER MOM VOWED 2 HER THAT SHE WILL DESTROY US ALL AFTER MARRIAGE 4 REVENGE (A FACT MY WIFE INFORMED US ONLY RECENTLY).
    TILL 5 MONTHS AFTER MARRIAGE, SHE DIDN’T SPEAK 2 HER MOM BECAUSE OF THIS THREAT. BUT WHEN FINALLY SHE STARTED TALKING 2 HER ON OUR INSISTENCE, HER MOM INSTIGATED HER AGAINST US, URGING HER THAT SHE SHOULD NEVER TRUST US, MUST FIGHT TOOTH & NAIL AGAINST ANY PERCEIVED INSULT, DIVIDE ME FROM MY PARENTS & FINALLY, INFORMED HER ABOUT 498A, DVA, ETC… AFTER WHICH SHE STARTED THREATNING TO REMOVE US FROM OUR HOME- CONVERTING THE TITLE IN HER NAME, PUTTING US IN JAIL & TAKING ALL OUR BELONGINGS, AFTER LEVELING FALSE ACCUSATIONS AGAINST US (LIKE DOWRY, VIOLENCE, TAKING HER STREEDHAN, ETC…) ON EVEN MINOR THINGS…SO THAT WE ALL BECOME SLAVES FOR HER.
    HER MOM GAVE A COMPLAINT LETTER TO THE CHILD & WOMEN’S CELL IN COMMISIONERATE OFFICE NEAR CRAWFORD MARKET IN MUMBAI RECENTLY. AFTER FINDING OUT THAT THE COMLAINT WAS A FALSE ONE (MY WIFE THEN HELPED ME BY TURNING AGAINST HER OWN MOM), NO ACTION WAS TAKEN GAINST ME. ON THEIR ADVICE, WE R VISITING KEM HOSPITAL (REPUTED GOVT. HOSPITAL), WHEREIN THE HOD OF PSYCHIATRIC WARDS OFFICIALLY DIAGNOSED HER TO HAVE – 1). BORDERLINE PERSONALITY DISORDER & 2). PARANOID SCHIZOPHRENIA, RECENTLY. I HAVE BEEN TOLD BY THANE MENTAL HOSPITAL THAT WITH THIS DIAGNOSIS, SHE CAN BE ADMITTED THERE. HER MOM EVEN CALLED OUR NEIGHBOURS & RELATIVES SPREADING LIES & SCORN ABOUT US & ALSO ASKED MY WIFE 2 DO SO- WHO OBLIGED BY VISITING THEM PERSONALLY.
    SHE KEEPS CALLING MY MOM A PROSTITUTE BEHIND HER, OPENLY MOCKS & INSULTS ME THAT I CANT RETALIATE, THREATENS TO BEAT UP & EVEN KILL MY MOM & IF I INTERFERE, THEN SHE’L TURN AGAINST ME ALSO. HER MOM GAVE US 35,000/- INR (BEARER CHEQUE) 2 ME AFTER MARRIAGE ON HER OWN (WHICH I ENCASHED IN THANE BRANCH & USED 4 THE RECEPTION IN THANE AFTER RETURNING FROM KOLKATA AFTER MARRIAGE).
    CURRENTLY, SHE SAYS SHE REPENTS HER ACTIONS & GIVES ABUSES TO HER MOM FOR TRYING TO SCREW UP OUR RELATIONSHIP. BUT THE PROBLEM IS THAT SHE IS UNPREDICTABLE BECAUSE OF HER PSYCHIATRIC ILLNESS. HENCE, MY PARENTS ARE LIVING IN CONSTANT FEAR & FREQUENTLY CRY, CURSING ME 4 HAVING MARRIED INTO SUCH A LOW INCOME (WE R MIDDLE CLASS) & THIRD GRADE FAMILY. THEY SAY- LETS FACE THE MUSIC & FINISH IT OFF 1CE N 4 ALL. ALSO, IF SHE CAN’T DO SIMPLE TOTALLING OF CURRENCY NOTES, WHAT USE WILL SHE BE IN THE FUTURE AFTER MY PARENTS, IF I AM IN ANY EMERGENCY?
    I HAVE & CONTINUE TO GATHER VOICE & VIDEO RECORDINGS (DIRECT AS WELL AS TELEPHONIC) BEFORE & AFTER MARRIAGE TO PROVE ALL THE ABOVE.

    Posted 6 years ago #
  2. Adv.Kachave
    Blocked

    If you and your parents are having contineous torture at the instance of your wife & her relatives, it will be better to get free from her. you may file divorce petition on the ground of divorce & other grounds. If you feel that any prosecution will be there at her instance, you approach for ant. bail before the court.
    http://www.jaihindlegal.com 9821387099, 9224799546.

    Adv.Ramchandra N.Kachave
    98, 2nd floor, Esplanade Mansion,Kala Ghoda, Near City Civil Sessions Court,
    Mumbai-4000023
    Posted 6 years ago #

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