My wife has deserted me . We had a marriage of 4 years and during this time she had left my home for quite a number of times and everytime I have to go his in laws house and tolerate humiliation and abusive languages and then got my wife back .My wife has made it a habit and now I am tired of doing the same. In short she has made my life miserable.
She always demands for a huge alimony and also says that if I am not ready to pay she will claim interim maintenance and fight a strong case againist me .
Also she threatens me to put behind bars using 498A.
She is 32 yrs of age and she knows the law much better than I do as I get a salary of 45k she demands 35% of it.
Now my question is as I am under financial pressure due to a house loan . Can the court grant her alimony although she is well educated ,have a chance of remarriage, donot have any child and also our marriage can’t be considered as a long term one as it is <10yrs. And above all she has deserted me and says that she can't stay with me although she refuses the statement in the court . How can I prove that as verbal communication between husband and wife are never recorded as I never anticipated that my wife is such a good actress and continuosly making false statements in the court and it seems her tears in the court have already done the trick for obtaining a sympathetic attitude.
Show me please the way out of this as my lawyer also says that she will get a good alimony.Today helplessly I feel wud have been a clever act to record all the statements that my wife made to me.
Is getting married in this country is something like a trap if u r not married to the right person.
As I was surfing got the following link
Which says that woman who has deserted is not elligible for alimony ..IS that true? I am not sure under what circumstances it happened.
I know the law has strengthened woman's rights , but do we men have the right to live life in peace ,does our legal system in India give us any right.