Hi rripples, Thanks for your response. I liked ur free way of expressing ur opinions.
Do the real women victims deserve contempt or support?(24 posts)
I strongly oppose this statement that all men are rapists. I never club all the things in one category. Sometimes the voice of the innocent is being pressed among numberless wrong pupil.
Hi kutiyakakhasam, I am sorry to hear about your case. Whatever best i can help you i would.
My cousin got justice in one year. He filed divorce case under sec-13 in september 2007 and then his wife filed numerous bad cases against him in oct 2007. Finally the case got over in nov 2008. My cousin had strong evidences against her.
Hi ravi76, ur remarks made me smile after a long time. Atleast you got my viewpoint that it is not about men or women...its about justice. Who so ever demands it should be provided. If you are right in every measure or parameter then no one can punish you.
Look at me...my husband has put such offensive remarks against me because he knows i belong to a gud family and i m sensitive...so i would give up. But i dint. His vulgar behaviour shows his weakness. In fact i being the girl(as people here say--girl are powerful when it comes to law n courts) did not accuse him of any wrong charges which i could have done....but i know my limits...i cannot descend to his lowness. So this gives me the strength to keep fighting because i know i m right and i deserve justice by following the right method....no matter what others think and say.
Also, i would like to advice you for your case...contact some good lawyer. If you have any evidences to prove your point that you dint harass the girl then collect them and present them in the court. Also get your complaint registered in some Grievance cell that the girl is molesting you to file police against you....if your story is true and if the cell's workmen find valid grounds then they will make sure that FIR etc is not filed against you.
Ravi If they have been already filed FIR or charge sheet against you then challenge them respectively in the high court.
This is the max knowledge i ve and in case if u need further advice...let me know i will try to survey and help you.
See that's what i'm saying just see your cousins case even after having strong evidences with him it took more than a year to sort out the matter, just think about people who don't have any strong evidences but still innocent have to face jail, monitory loss, insults and mental disturbances.
Just think about a husband's and his family who cannot prove their innocence on the word of some liars (wives and laywers) have to face jail and other legal tortures.
I agree kutiyakakhasam. I know...and i ve seen men suffer too...But my q was....are all women wrong....but anyways u answered it.
Priya, i never said all women are wrong i said 95% of them are wrong who falsely implicate men, there are only 5% who are genuine.
Do you agree with sstggn's comments on my other thread? I am still unclear about your comment there....What did you actually mean?
that was for wives who think like that as i mentioned in my previous post there are 95%women who are bi###es and losers who don't understand the real meaning of life, relationship all that matter for them is MONEY, and on the other side there are still 5% who are genuine.
That comment was only for those few 95% women.
Ok understood Kukutiyakakhasam.
Priya, I am a female victim of law misuse. I am not enjoying any rights as a female or even as a human just because I have a brother who got married to an ill intentioned girl. If you talk about the REAL victim girls, as you have yourself mentioned, they can get justice from the channels mentioned by you. But we have no such channels open for us. I am sure your brother's case would not be as simple as ours (the girl who has accused us hasnt stayed with us at all), still you have claimed that he has got justice while we are losing our health, mental peace, money and our lives are ruined just because my brother is CAPABLE and can earn well (as claimed by the law abusers). Needless to say that we are helpless and are struggling for justice each day of our life.
So please leave this forum for people like us and enjoy the justice and freedom destiny has blessed you with.
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