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Delayed justice leading to grief, pain and fear.

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  • Started 7 years ago by priya
  • Latest reply from atit.rajpara
  1. priya
    Member

    I think Sanjay Mehra..u should learn how to respect somebody's parents. Behave like a grown up. We are here for discussing problems and not abuse somebody's parents. Dare you call my parents as fool or i would report your name to the moderators. I pity you.
    As far as my case is concerned...read before you type ...i mentioned yesterday that i ve already got my divorce...i m freeeeeeee now and ve got my DELAYED JUSTICE finally. This proves i was right...i m right.
    So check ur status dear. And stop writing in my thread..nobody needs ur offensive and biased opinions.

    Posted 7 years ago #
  2. sstggn
    Member

    This lady earlier wrote :-
    I dont want huge amounts from his salary...just some % so that i can reduce the financial burden on my parents which they are continuously bearing for me.
    please note "REDUCE FINANCIAL BURDEN ON MY PARENTS"

    then she wrote
    We are not asking for alimony infact we are asking for the money which our parents beared on marriage and the lumpsumps which they gave my husband so that marriage could sustain. In total my parensts have given him 5 lacs and plus our expenditure for marriage was 15lacs. And still we r not asking full money.
    "EXPENDITURE ON MARRIAGE 15 LACS, AMOUNT GIVEN 5 LACS"

    then
    We spent on roka ceremony 1.5lacs + engagement 5lacs + wedding expenses 7lacs + cash after marriage to husband 5lacs =18.5lacs.
    Litigation expenses --1.5lacs.....so total=20lacs.
    Husband spended on marriage---2lacs. (neither he bought any clothes for himself or me or gave any gold to me.)
    So sstggn i hope you know how money is earned by poor parents of the girl.
    HE SPENT LESS (2 LACS) (NEITHER BOUGHT ANY CLOTHS FOR HIMSELF OR ME OR GAVE GOLD TO ME. SHE HOPE I KNOW HOW MONEY IS EARNED BY POOR PARENTS OF GIRL

    conclusion

    1. Boy is earning handsome amount of 70-80 thousand
    2. Girls parents are very poor
    3. Boy spent no money on marriage
    4. Girl's poor parents spent huge amount of 20 lacs on boy only
    5. She does not want his money
    6. She wants to reduce the financial burden on her parents

    NICE VERY NICE
    NOW I KNOW WHY THIS TOPIC WAS ALLOWED TO BE CONTINUED
    HOPE EVERYONE READING THIS WILL KNOW THE TRUTH

    MY bit...'s parents are also poor but they loaned me a huge amount of 5 lacs for some unknown reason at some unknown time by unknown mode.

    Please call this girl in weekly meeting to get more truth out from her

    Posted 7 years ago #
  3. kutiyakakhasam
    Member

    Larki ke parents ki kamai HALAL ki aur LARKE ki HARAM ki

    Posted 7 years ago #
  4. sstggn
    Member

    Now she claims she is already divorced
    in hrs she got divorce

    I AM SO HAPPY TO KNOW THAT ONE MALE IS FREE FROM THE CLUTCHES OF A BIT......

    HAY Mr kutiyakakhasam larki us haram ki kamai ko HALAL ki kamai me badalna chahti hai

    kaise???? (LARKE KO HALAL KAR KE ;)

    Posted 7 years ago #
  5. sstggn
    Member

    Members who wrote on this post (excluding priya and kachave), can i talk to you in person, please?????
    contact me at surjeet.taneja@gmail.com or at 9024525558

    Posted 7 years ago #
  6. priya
    Member

    Hi sstggn....read my post of yesterday....i said i have filed for divorce. I dont care what you say because i think the judges and law ruling the courts have the authority and jurisdiction to decide the matters. They have played their part.....and people like you do not matter to me.

    I demanded alimony earlier because my marriage was broken due to my husband's fault and the law says husband who is a defaulter should maintain his wife. But i can maintain myself. But my poor parents who arranged money for my marriage...why should they suffer? I am not asking his money. I am asking our money which we gave him.

    If this little thing doesnt get into your head. Please continue to think what you want to. Your abuses show how weak are your morals and foundations. Great to know that people like you exist and this makes me more strong.

    Posted 7 years ago #
  7. priya
    Member

    Dear moderator and administrator i would like you to please atleast check on the content of the posts that the members of this community post. I am really disappointed that people here are calling a girl's parents as fools. The parents money as haram or halal...or whatever and they are abusing me literally with offensive words and remarks. If this has to continue....i would like to close my subscription because i have already got my justice and i thought i would clear and help others tooo but i guess i m wrong. I would never recommend this site to anybody now.

    i was here for advice and not to give clarifications. I think i have other better things to do in life than expect some knowledgeable content here. The law has fully supported me...i had all the evidences...the entire society knows who was the culprit...still these guys are confused. Its easy to sit here and pass comments. If you guys were so true why dint you all get justice like me. Its really sad to know that men are so close-minded.

    Posted 7 years ago #
  8. honour
    Member

    hey priya
    good to know that u r moving on.
    u didnt tell the name of the lawyer of your ex-husband. my email id is luvbdr@gmail.com

    hey guys r u alien to the concept of harmless flirting. its not like you are commited to some one or any thing. its like " MORE THAN GOOD FRIENDS" i m sure a lot of us must have heard it from other girls. its a kind of relationship without inhibitions.and the emotional atyachar. its just enjoying each others company.

    i would request all seprated singles to try that out

    and guys i strongly feel that our wives should be HAPPY with their lives. because a happy person would realise the futility of these stupid litigation. right now most of them have become totlaly illogical they want to wreak revenge on us for no reason what they dont understand is that they are going down the path of MAD mutually assured distruction.

    always remember a happy person would be a SENSIBLE person.

    just imagine our 498a wives meet their Mr rights and want to settle with him wont that make them drop their cases in a hurry.

    so be positive and as my good friend says " COUNT YOUR BLESSINGS"

    Posted 7 years ago #
  9. priya
    Member

    Hi honour, well i m happy to know again that you support me with right intentions. These other people are treating me and abusing as ..Bit.. as if i m their real life wife. Their bad words did hurt me because now i understand why their wives left them. They are taking their life frustrations on me. What a joke! Well let them...losers are asking for people to form a club against a women here and i am alone fighting against them.
    But i was thinking....when my legal struggle is over with my husband...why should i now take any interest in arguing with these losers.
    Gud luck to you honour and kindly guide me to delete this thread...i have no time to sit here and get myself stressed up with non-sense.

    Posted 7 years ago #
  10. honour
    Member

    priya
    u should not take their comments to heart. most of the guys here have shattered dreams, messed up lifes, and broken households. they are in a foul mood because their lifes have been brought to screeching halt. believe me they have nothing against you.

    its great to know that you are not following up the litigations and decided to compromise. the way i look at it is a failed marriage is not a crime its just a detour.
    I WISH U ALL THE BEST. STAY IN TOUCH

    and guys just enjoy ur selves. even if we loose some money LETS NOT LOOSE OUR LIFES. coz if we loose some money we might earn it back. but this time is never gonna come back. remember guys none of us is getting any YOUNGER in here.

    move on
    as my good friend says "COUNT YOUR BLESSINGS"

    Posted 7 years ago #
  11. kutiyakakhasam
    Member

    Priya,
    I would appreciate if you can refrain yourself from the comments like

    "They are taking their life frustrations on me. What a joke! Well let them...losers are asking for people to form a club against a women here and i am alone fighting against them."

    just to answer your doubt if we are forming a club against women then what would you call NCW (again run by Women) who has legally formed a club against men, who never raise there voice in case of woman who is poor and not from metro cities, who has shut their eyes and ears in case of Ruchika and Shruti. Where were they when Ruchika committed suicide. You know why this is because they are not concerned about woman who are in real trouble, they are also concerned about money they get from government.

    you can say NCW is a wife of Indian GOVERNMENT, where NCW treats Indian Government as their LEGALLY WEDDED HUSBAND, our hard earned money which we have paid in the form of taxes as their own property.

    TRUST me the day Indian Government say that they want to abolish NCW, you will see another DOMESTIC VIOLENCE CASE in PATIALA HOUSE :).

    Posted 7 years ago #
  12. priya
    Member

    Hi kutiyakakhasam,
    I am sorry i will not refrain myself from expressing my views...... atleast i am not abusing anybody like other genders. Infact i have decided to stop using this thread now. So please all of you suit yourself. The guys here were not bothered that i was
    1) beaten up
    2) abused badly
    3) thrown out of the house
    4) my parents abused and also beaten for money
    5) he has taken away all my belongings and gold
    6) they have sent some local Gundas to my father's shop thrice to threat him to kill and saying that we are ready to accept your daughter if you give us 15lacs.
    7) those guys are still saying today even..,,,,,we can accept you if you give us 15lacs instead of 20lacs demanded intitally. Can anyone believe this?

    Alimony is the right provided by the law. I have demanded whatever ...acc to law. Do i have no rights to ask my things back?
    But what my husband and his family did to me......it was in accordance to which law? Is mal-treatment allowed....in continuing with YOUR ARGUMENTS WITH ME...THE REAL CULPRIT IS ENJOYING HIS FREEDOM AND GAINING STRENGTH TO CONTINUE HIS FOUL BEHAVIOUR. i just hope he does not punish some other woman like me.

    All you guys have just stuck on alimony ...if you dislike my opinion then question law ...not me.
    Do you guys think its easy for women like me to go in the court where all sorts of men give you embarrassing and scornful looks?
    Do you think am i enjoying this?
    Do you think i was born to steal other's money?

    i guess u guys wont understand.....so from now on i wont answer this thread because i dont see any sense in continuing here with biased people.
    When i logged in this site...i never knew...this was Legal terrorism and Gender biased laws Victims community. But once i started getting responses contradictory to my real life supporters then i noticed i have landed up in wrong place. Its you guys who made me feel that i am unwanted here. Forget about NCW and etc....the change starts with an individual...when you people couldnt understand and comprehend my situation...i cant imagine that you guys can do something big for this nation apart from accusing innocent people. Thank God you guys are not guardians of law and are just mere members of this community.
    Anyways keeping arguments aside, I wish all the men who responded and who would read this thread till the time its not deleted..... a bright and a happy future ahead.

    Posted 7 years ago #

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