HI, iam 28yrs old , my husband and i have loved and married last year 2008 oct, wen ever he hurted me I used to raise my voice and get beatings as my neighbors told to lodge a complaint but since i love him i never did that and waited him to change. Although he used to hurt me due to rules and regulations of his family i used to tell him to not to force me or hurt me in such matters. for eg: his sister and her husband had bought some sex cds to home which i dint like. And my husband beat me for it saying its all common. many such things used to take place which gave way for me to race my voice. recently my husband and i had an argument as he always used to go sit in his aunts house one hour before going to work i told him to drop me to some near bus stop as iam working he denied and used to spend time in aunts house then went to work. after 2 days i told him if he is doing same i shall not cook and to have food tere itself THINKING HE WOULD CHANGE .for which he got angry and called his mom but she without even judging told him to leave me and come to her native and go to work from her house. he called my parents and left me with them even dint talk a word. Since same week we had to vaccat the house he came with his bro and took all his things. His family told to wait for a month so that he is cool as he is always hitemper let him be free and after a month we both shall live together. i spoke to his mom she told the same. I agreed to it. Recently I msg him to take me home or find a house or shall I find a house he told he wont come any were but to stay with him in his native, I agreed to it but before that I need to get my parents to talk with his parents.
Recently he came asking for money which we had to pay to his uncle ie interest amount. I some how arranged and gave he also torchered me to give gas book as some one is in need . I told its our property we cant give it others later if we are in need then what. But he started getting angry telling its his money and beat me IN ROAD when he came to collect the money and said he dose not want to live with me. Now he is not contacting me nor allowing me to stay with him. What shall I do. If I take my parents for talk also they all with fight and make mess and may tell he is not willing to lead his life with me its left to him. Were shall I go. Iam a female iam married. I will loose all my respect in society. Pl guid me pl tell me what I can do will I get to stay with him with the help of law. Or he just telling that iam torchering can win his case. And leave me easily and lead his life with other female.
Wehad fights for sex cds given by his sister
His behivour was so that made me to talk.
If I go to his sis house I should stay tere even after I dint had proper clothes to were.
After marriage I had to listen words from his family stating that since I dint allow his sis to stay for first night in our house I am not a virgin.
There are many issues for which we had fights today they all are making issue that iam torchering him and he wants to leave me. Pl tell me what shall I do. I want to live with him. My whole life is depending upon him.